#itgender

some people think that nobody is "actually" catgender or smthn . i mean what am i vro. sometimes im just like this

as for me, im xenoflux, which means my gender identity sorta fluctuates. as of now, im more boy-gender vs xeno. i fluctuate between male, cat, and just the concept of it/its pronouns?? (not being agender and using it/its pronouns, but the prns themselves.) which idk how that even happened but like. go off, gender. do whatever you want. so liek, currently, im this

it's honestly really frustrating how many queer people, especially some of my closest friends, will tout the mantra of "pronouns do not equal gender", but not actually internalize that and sorta just throw it out the window when someone's pronouns don't "match" their gender. I've been using it/its pronouns as my preferred pronouns for months at this point, and the entire time i was making that shift i tried my best to make it very clear to the people around me that:

1. I am still a binary woman. i have literally never not been binary in my gender. I am not non-binary just because i use genderless pronouns, I'm still a binary woman, just with some extra thing-gender on top of it. (a couple people even started calling me by they/them pronouns when i told them i used it/its, which is just crazy)

2. she/her pronouns still apply to me!! i just dont prefer them from most people!! at first, i had my pronouns listed as it/her. preferred pronoun first, other applicable pronoun second. but when it was that way, no one would actually use the preferred pronoun and i was still just she/her to everyone.

i got tired of explaining that i really dont want most people using those pronouns for me and then them asking "well why do you still have them listed then?". so i just removed them, but then that gave way to a new issue, from the same people I'd already been explaining everything to the whole time. any time i would refer to myself with she/her pronouns (something that I've always tried to make clear that it is okay for me to do) i would be told i was misgendering myself. I also gave my girlfriend permission to use those pronouns, because she's special and they're reserved for special people. but they've not been using them, and im quite sure it's out of fear of being told shes misgendering me (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠)

so now i have to have a cumbersome, verbose pronouns line on any apps that will let me do so, saying i use it/its pronouns but some people have permission to refer to me as she/her.

GenderHe: A gender that uses he/him pronouns GenderShe: A gender that uses she/her pronouns

GenderThey: A gender that uses they/them pronouns GenderIt: A gender that uses it/its pronouns

The colors are inspired by each terms counterpart that’s related to the pronouns

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itgender is when you are it. the thing that people fear, the thing that people know. the above flag is the dark itgender flag, for when you are void.

left - angel itgender

right - anomaly itgender

art of my lesser known flags . i need to make some supa ultra big art with alll of the flags i used.