Hcs for how Itachi and Kakashi would handle their children during their teenage years?
ā° Kakashi
ā With a son heās rather laid back not nearly as laid back as he is with a daughter, but he has a rather lax parenting style and while he would try to set an example and give his children advice. He would fully anticipate his son or daughter not listening to him and having to learn things the hard way. Heāll warn his kids but also has no problems with allowing them to make mistakes. And heāll be there to pick them back up after they fall.
ā Heās not one for arguing or controlling others especially his kids, unless it comes to a very serious matter. If his children were in potential danger or did something very reckless than he can become quite agitated and quick to react to make sure his children were alright, even if it ran the risk of upsetting his children. But smaller more common things like talking back wouldnāt bother him much and he wouldnāt react much to it.
ā Has a harder time with a teenage daughter and would rely heavily on his S/O to handle any issues that arise with a daughter. Only because he wouldnāt know the best way to handle a rebellious or dispute with his daughter. Heās fairly perceptive and understanding so he would have an easy enough time figuring out the problem or issue. But he wouldnāt want to make things worse by accidentally hurting his daughters feelings or escalating the situation on accident.
ā However in general disagreements and disputes between him and his daughter would be rather rare. Only because he tends to be quite laid back and easy going with his children (especially a daughter) and would lean more towards spoiling his daughter. Disagreements would really only arise if the daughter was disrespectful or refused to listen to his S/O. Then heād feel the need to step in.
ā° Itachi
ā Has a hard time disciplining his children whether they are sons or daughters, however he has a very calm, understanding and relaxed way of parenting that a rebellious phase or disrespectful or talking back type of behavior would catch him a little off guard. However he would remain very patient and understanding. and would see these outbursts as something more serious, and suspect something is wrong or bother his child whether boy or girl and try to get to the bottom of things.
ā He never loses his temper towards any of his children though he may be more stern towards his son. Only if his son was disrespectful or rude towards his wife. Because he would want to raise his son to be a respectable person. and he doesnāt want him to ever be disrespectful in any way towards any female ever. therefore it can cause Itachi to be more straight forward and strict with his son.
ā It would be difficult for him to know how to react to his daughter when sheās being rebellious or disrespectful. Only because he has a soft spot for his daughter and it would be hard for him to be strict or upset with his daughter. Though instead of yelling or disciplining his daughter, heās the type to take his daughter somewhere where they can talk and he can try to find out why sheās behaving this way.
ā At the same time it would be rather hard for him to understand where any rebellious phase was coming from. because heās always been very understanding and patient towards his children and would blame himself for their behavior. It would make him wonder if heās just a bad father and not cut out to be a parent. Though he would never condemn or criticize his children. Instead he would blame himself yet never telling his S/O or children this.










