ā® Have you managed to stay away from drama?ā Have you ever been in the middle of drama?⯠Have you ever tried to bring peace to a situation?
i bought a jar of sea salt yesterday / acceptingĀ
ā® Have you managed to stay away from drama?
staying away from drama is basically a hobby at this point. i donāt care about it, i donāt want to be around it, so involvement in the Latest Big Argument is the single fastest ticket to being unfollowed unless youāre an actual friend or regular rp partner. it just makes me angry and i donāt need those bad vibes in my life. iāve got a dash that i very rarely, if everĀ see any form of drama on and iām very happy about it. iāve not been involved either with the exception of --Ā
ā Have you ever been in the middle of drama?
not in the middleĀ of drama, but on the edge of it with a topic that hit extremely close to home that i did pitch in with because if iām being honest the whole thing genuinely made me really uncomfortable? iām not going to name names or bring up what it was because it was relatively recent (last 6 months) in this fandom. that was the one time i ever got involved and iām glad i did because a few people actually listened to me and helped me feel justified in my stance.Ā
⯠Have you ever tried to bring peace to a situation?
nnnno? but mostly because iām never really involved in the situation to begin with. i guess there was one occasion in dragon age rp where someone (that i didnāt follow, so i didnāt actually see it) who wasnāt cutting their posts. instead of approaching them directly about it and asking them to, one particular person made a pass-aggro GOD people need to CUT their POSTSĀ post and while that wouldnāt have been too bad, people started reblogging it and it picked up a fair bit of speed. dragon age rp was really small at the time and that sort of almost witch hunting could drive a new blog away. since i didnāt know who it was and couldnāt contact them myself, i made a post suggesting that those that were so violently offended by it should ask them to cut their post instead of making passaggro posts of their own, a few people reblogged it, and the reblogs of the passaggro stopped and the place was gucci again. which was nice. i just hope they were kind/civil/otherwise diplomatic in approaching the offender in the end