#involuntary commitment tw

Ok so yesterday morning, as i was relaxing a bit before therapy, mum knocked on my door to tell me that my 7yo nephew (R) had run away, my sister was in crisis and wasn't going to go after him, so mum was heading there to go find him. In the few minutes it took her to get ready to leave, she explained that my sister and R had been clashing all morning and at some point she told him to leave so he went for a walk alone and made it to the main road before returning. Apparently after clashing some more, he left again, this time without being told and she was choosing not to go after him. She also told mum that she wanted to put him in the psych hospital.

So my brain fritzed a bit as I tried to process all of that. And then the panic set in about him being alone walking towards a major highway.

Thankfully, before mum even got there, he returned, and mum went and made lunch for them and calmed the situation down.

But fucking shit. My brain is still breaking over all of this. Like, to start, my fucking sister told her 7yo to leave the house because she didn't want to deal with him. And then just didn't go after him when he ran away. What the fuck?!

And she wants to put him in a fucking psych hospital because she can't deal with him?! Like, her reasoning is just that he's obstinate. And to make this even harder to deal with, the hospital she's using as a threat is the same one I was threatened with and eventually had two inpatient stays at. So that stirred up some shit.

And tomorrow they're all coming over for the afternoon/evening and i just... How the fuck am i supposed to interact with her as if everything's fine??

On the way to the store this afternoon, mum and I were talking about all this and she tells me this plan she has to help my sister because when mum told her she couldn't admit R for this, she wanted to admit herself and mum doesn't want that so they're gonna do a fucking ~bible study~ to address trauma. Mum then goes on to talk about how my sister clearly has trauma from being bullied and I wanted to scream. Like fuck you fuck you fuck you you're part of the fucking problem! And shit like this is part of the problem! The fucking cult bible stuff

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We got interrupted by our partner getting home from work. He asked what was wrong so we showed him what we'd written and we talked for a bit.

When we got to our room, Bean came out and started crying and hyperventilating. They said something about not wanting to be sent away before a different part fronted. They were really upset and started getting body memories. Our partner said this part seemed like one he hasn't interacted with before.

And now I'm here with body memories and nausea trying to settle things down.

I think the last thing we wanted to cover about the talk with mum earlier is that when I mentioned something about my sister making comments about wanting to kill R, mum was shocked. Apparently she hadn't heard that (or, more likely, chose not to hear it). But yeah, that's a whole other thing i probably shouldn't get into at the moment but I needed to write it down.