#internetsafety

I was reading a post from someone who either deactivated — or got deactivated — but who is basically urfavoritedad.

The post was about DMs in the kink community. And hey, hypnosis counts as part of that. Or maybe not. Who knows. But the post felt wise, so I figured I’d add my own two cents.

1- Respect the fact that not everyone wants to talk.

The original poster mentioned that the reasons can be endless. Maybe the person is tired, dealing with personal stuff, uncomfortable talking to strangers, already juggling too many conversations, or simply not interested in talking to someone new.

To that list I’d add that some people write posts and queue them (my current queue is 4 months long), so Tumblr can make someone look active when they’re nowhere near their computer.

It’s also possible English isn’t their first language, so they may feel more comfortable taking their time writing replies instead of responding instantly and stressing over mistakes.

And another thing: maybe someone tried to groom or phish them at some point, so now they approach random interactions with caution.

Related to that, they may not feel comfortable talking to someone with a brand-new profile, a ghost-looking account, or someone whose age is unclear considering the nature of the topics being discussed. Nobody wants legal problems.

2- If someone decides to talk to you, treat them like a human being.

Just because their posts are sexual doesn’t mean they necessarily want conversations to start sexually. Nobody exists purely for your sexual gratification or, as some people would put it in less elegant but unfortunately accurate terms, a “cum dispenser.”

Maybe they want to get to know you first, talk about limits, likes, dislikes, boundaries, and comfort levels.

Maybe at some point they are open to quick interactions, and if so, they’ll probably make that clear in their pinned post or on their blog.

Also: if someone took the time to write their likes, dislikes, limits, red flags, preferences, or boundaries in their profile or pinned post, respect that effort.

To quote the now inactive colleague: nobody wants to be dominated from the very first message without even knowing you. And if they do want that, they’ll tell you explicitly.

3- Sometimes conversations just aren’t rewarding.

Sometimes conversations simply don’t go anywhere. It’s like pulling a tooth: forcing it usually doesn’t magically make it work better.

Don’t get offended. Sometimes there’s just no chemistry. Don’t take it personally; you probably have no idea what’s actually going on in the other person’s life, and maybe it just wasn’t something that was going to work.

There’s also the issue that sometimes people genuinely don’t know how to continue conversations.

If you say “hi,” they reply “hi,” then you ask “how are you?” and they say “good,” it becomes pretty difficult for the conversation to go anywhere meaningful.

If you want to talk to someone, it can help to say something like: “I read your post and X part caught my attention” or “I saw your comment about X and it made me think about Y.”

You can usually tell the difference between a conversation with some kind of direction versus one that’s completely empty.

And look, I’m not saying every interaction needs deep meaning, but when there’s absolutely no purpose behind it, conversations tend to dissolve much faster.

Whether you were looking for a friend, a dynamic partner, a dom, a sub, a hypnotist, or a subject: sometimes people just don’t connect.

4- Speaking specifically about hypnotist-subject dynamics.

If you’re a subject: don’t assume a hypnotist is looking for subjects just because they post hypnosis content. Some people explicitly state in their pinned posts whether they are open to dynamics or not.

If you’re a hypnotist: don’t assume everyone wants to be your subject. Don’t be a predator. Sending inductions without prior discussion can come across as invasive, to put it mildly.

5- And while we’re talking about the hypno community: for the love of the all-seeing god, do not send spirals without even saying “hello.”

For some people spirals do absolutely nothing. For others, intense lights and flashing visuals can affect them pretty badly.

In some cases they can cause headaches, dizziness, or create problems for photosensitive people.

6- Respect people’s gender, pronouns, and boundaries.

If someone lists their pronouns, preferences, or limits, respect them. If they dislike certain things or don’t engage in certain practices, don’t try to pressure them into it.

And if you’re unsure, you can always ask politely like a functional human being.

7- If someone sends you sexual content — photos, videos, private conversations — don’t spread that stuff all over the internet.

8- Public fantasy does not equal automatic consent.

Just because someone posts horny, hypnotic, or fetish content does not mean they want to participate with you specifically.

There’s a massive difference between: enjoying a fantasy,writing about it,reblogging it,roleplaying it, and wanting actual personal interaction.

A lot of people engage with this content as fiction, aesthetics, catharsis, or mental exploration without wanting to turn it into a real dynamic with strangers.

9- Don’t use guilt or victimization to force interaction.

“You hate me because you didn’t reply.”“Nobody wants me.” “You’re cruel for ignoring me.”“I opened my heart to you.” “You made me feel used.”

That does not create intimacy. It creates pressure.

The other person is not responsible for regulating your emotions just because you talked for a while.

10- Triggers and post-hypnotic suggestions are not universal toys.

Do not assume that because something works on you, it will work the same way on everyone else.

And don’t assume everyone wants surprise triggers, files, inductions, or hypnotic language thrown at them out of context.

Even within the community there are people who: separate fantasy from reality,prefer negotiation beforehand, or actively avoid certain formats because of negative past experiences.

People come to these communities looking for connection, fantasy, exploration, or fun. Don’t turn that into an exhausting or unsafe experience for others.

Be weird on the internet. Don’t be dangerous on the internet.

Hi everyone 👋 welcome back to my blog!

In this week’s reflection, I will be discussing digital citizenship and conflict, with a focus on social media governance. As social media platforms continue to grow, they have become important spaces for communication, discussion, and debate. However, these platforms also face increasing challenges related to misinformation, online conflict, and harmful content.

Digital citizenship refers to the responsible and ethical use of digital technologies. In online environments, this includes how users communicate with others, respond to conflict, and engage with information. A key aspect of digital citizenship is understanding that online behaviour has real-world consequences, especially when content spreads quickly across platforms (Choi, 2020).

Social media governance refers to the rules, policies, and systems that platforms use to manage user behaviour and content. Platforms such as Instagram, TikTok, X (formerly Twitter), and YouTube use a combination of community guidelines, algorithmic systems, and human moderation to regulate content and reduce harm. However, these systems are not always consistent or transparent, which can lead to ongoing debates about fairness and accountability (Gillespie, 2020).

Online conflict can take many forms, including disagreements in comment sections, political debates, and harassment between users. Research shows that platform design and algorithmic recommendation systems can intensify conflict by promoting highly engaging or emotionally charged content (Jhaver et al., 2021).

From a digital citizenship perspective, users also play an important role in managing online conflict. Responsible participation includes respectful communication, fact-checking information before sharing, and avoiding harmful interactions. Users should also be aware that algorithms influence what content they see and interact with online.

However, social media governance raises ongoing debates about freedom of expression versus content moderation. While stricter moderation can reduce harmful content, it may also raise concerns about censorship and bias. This creates a complex challenge for platforms, governments, and users alike.

Overall, digital citizenship and social media governance are closely connected. Understanding how platforms manage conflict helps users become more responsible digital citizens and encourages healthier online environments.

Reference

Choi, M. (2020). Digital citizenship for democratic citizenship: A challenge for transformative learning. Adult Learning, 31(4), 141–148. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/306930360_A_Concept_Analysis_of_Digital_Citizenship_for_Democratic_Citizenship_Education_in_the_Internet_Age

Gillespie, T. (2020). Custodians of the internet: Platforms, content moderation, and the hidden decisions that shape social media. Yale University Press. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/327186182_Custodians_of_the_internet_Platforms_content_moderation_and_the_hidden_decisions_that_shape_social_media

The Invisible Identity You Leave Online

“What if every click you made, every post you shared, and every search you typed became a permanent part of your identity? In the digital world, nothing truly disappears. Your digital footprint follows you everywhere.”

Each and every click, like, search, share, or comment that you perform creates an impression. No matter how much you may think that there is nobody watching you, the internet stores much more than what you might think. Every reel that you browse through during the midnight hours and every website that you visit during the daytime forms a part of your life that goes unnoticed. This unseen profile is called your digital footprint, and it plays an important role in today’s world.

Digital footprints, also called digital shadows or electronic footprints, refer to the trail of information that you leave behind while using the internet. Digital footprints include many things such as the information you submit online, the websites you visit, emails you send, posts on social media, and online shopping activities.

A digital footprint is often used to track a person’s online activities as well as the devices they use. An internet user can create their digital footprint either actively or passively.

Active digital footprints are created when users knowingly share information about themselves. These are created through posting or participating on social networking sites or online forums. If a user is logged into a website through a registered username or profile, any posts they make form part of their active digital footprint.

On the other hand, passive digital footprints are created when information about the user is collected without them being aware that it is happening. This is done in various ways, such as websites collecting information about how many times users visit, where they come from, and their IP address. This is a hidden process that users may not realize is taking place. Other examples of passive footprints include social networking sites and advertisers using your likes, shares, and comments to profile you and target you with specific content.

Digital footprints matter because they are relatively permanent. Once data is public, or even semi-public (as may be the case with Facebook posts), the owner has little control over how others will use it. A digital footprint has the power to determine a person’s digital reputation, which is now considered as important as their offline reputation.

Words and photos that you post online can be misinterpreted or altered, causing unintentional offense. Cybercriminals can exploit your digital footprint and use it for purposes such as phishing for account access or creating false identities based on your data.

For these reasons, it is worth considering what your digital footprint says about you. Many people try to manage their digital footprint by being cautious about their online activities in order to control the data that can be gathered in the first place.

Digital footprints are a huge part of everyday life today. Students, professionals, influencers, businesses, and even children are building digital footprints every day. Even merely searching for a product online can affect the ads you see on Instagram, YouTube, or Google later. Companies often gather user data to learn how consumers behave and enhance their marketing tactics. Whilst this can make online experiences more personalised, it also raises serious concerns around privacy and data security.

The digital footprint of an individual might also influence their future prospects. Companies and institutions usually conduct background checks on candidates through online searches. Content posted years ago, such as offensive messages, inappropriate pictures, and controversial viewpoints, might come back to haunt a person. Many individuals have lost jobs and internship opportunities, as well as their reputation, owing to content they had assumed would eventually be forgotten.

On the other hand, digital footprints are not necessarily negative in nature. A good digital footprint may actually help individuals develop their personal brands and professional identities. For instance, posting accomplishments, artistic works, academic materials, and professional stories on digital platforms can result in building an excellent and positive reputation for oneself. The use of LinkedIn accounts, portfolios, blogging, and appropriate social media usage can do wonders for students and professionals.

Nevertheless, controlling one’s digital footprint is something that requires knowledge and a sense of responsibility. For instance, many people sign up on websites and install applications without even bothering to read the terms and conditions, thus unintentionally allowing those programs to use their private data, which includes location, contacts, browsing history, and personal preferences. Apps and websites that provide services free of charge tend to collect user data.

The following are some of the measures that an individual can take to safeguard his/her digital footprint. The first one entails being cautious about what one posts on the internet. Individuals need to refrain from posting personal information such as passwords, phone numbers, addresses, and bank account details on the internet. Other tips include the use of two-factor authentication and deleting browser cookies.

Another effective technique is to periodically search for yourself on the internet in order to find out what kind of information is accessible about you. This will help individuals become more conscious about their online identity and do something about it if needed. It also helps if individuals restrict access permissions and avoid clicking on dubious links or websites.

The problem with modern times is the fact that technology changes quicker than people understand the importance of privacy and security in cyberspace. The majority of people, particularly younger generations, spend hours on the internet daily without realizing how much personal information is collected during their activity. Social networking sites, video games, commercial websites, and mobile applications collect user data all the time in order to increase their profitability and attractiveness. In this regard, people get included in large databases without even knowing it.

It is thus very crucial to be digitally literate and aware in today’s society. Schools, universities, and parents need to teach individuals how to use the internet responsibly and the significance of safeguarding their personal data online. It is through knowing terms such as cyber safety, privacy settings, online scams, and digital footprints that individuals will be able to make better choices while using the internet.

In the end, the internet can be a very useful tool if we know how to use it correctly. We are all responsible for ourselves and what we do on the internet. Our digital footprint can represent our creativity, intelligence, and professionalism, but it can also bring trouble if we are not careful enough. Since our digital footprint becomes an inseparable part of us, we have no choice but to manage it carefully.

(I’m not an expert on this topic and I could be wrong, so I apologize – this is just my perspective)

Recently, I experienced an unusual situation, and I decided to share it with you because anyone could fall victim to phishing or something similar. Maybe what I write here will help someone. ```

For those who know what phishing is, you can skip this. If not, in short: "an attempt to trick you into taking action or giving out information by pretending to be someone else or making a situation seem serious, using fear, time pressure, and authority (like a supposed email from a service) to make you do something you normally wouldn’t"

I had such a situation, and honestly, I got scared. It looked very “official” – a supposed email, logos, official-looking design, and all that. I was very stressed and panicked, but then I remembered this motto: "Not everything you see and hear is 100% true; there’s always 50% untruth"

So I calmly pushed it aside and checked everything carefully. Of course, I didn’t click any links he sent me, and you shouldn’t either if you ever find yourself in a similar situation.

I didn’t receive any email – no official message from Tumblr. If it had been real, I probably would have received one. (Of course, not every blog should be judged like this – this was MY situation; always stay alert!!)

Then I checked the profile of the person who sent me the message. They had about 14 posts (all reblogs), completely random without tags or description, nothing at all. If there were silly jokes, that might be okay, but all the posts had been reblogged almost at the same time. The blog description was huge and… kind of irrelevant to the blog.

I also checked with ChatGPT, sending a screenshot of our conversation and the screenshot of the email he sent me. ChatGPT said it was a scam. Then I checked more thoroughly online, and indeed, it was a scam.

In short: if someone messages you saying they accidentally reported you or something similar and sends a screenshot of a supposed email, stay calm and carefully check the information – do NOT click any links!

If there’s time pressure – like “you have 5 hours to respond” or “this matter is with the police,” mentions of important people from Tumblr moderation or any other site you are on, or claims that they have to contact you personally – it’s fake.

Official emails from Tumblr come directly to your email, they do not threaten police action or give time limits. Before taking any action, they carefully review the situation.

Most importantly: if you haven’t done anything wrong and have a clear conscience, why worry? You didn’t do anything bad, there’s no evidence, and even if someone tries to scare you, the platform will carefully check everything. Nothing truly disappears from the internet.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help from trusted people or moderation – that’s what moderation is for. Nothing bad will happen if you report something suspicious or ask questions.

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If you didn't know a bunch of 4chaners announced another manifesto where they outlined how they're going to target lgbtqia+ people, dox them, and use anything they can to do stuff like set up tinder and gindr accounts with people's information.

This is not the first time some 4chaners got it in their heads to do something like this, but we all need to be vigilant about our accounts anyhow.

Watchout for anyone tagging stuff as #operationpridefall or #pridefall , that's the name they're using this time.

It's hard to get the word out without triggering or panicking people but please remember, you don't need to panic in order to just double check your accounts and be wary.