Not intersexism exactly, but intracommunity issues & extreme antisemitism in addition to racism. Intersexbunny posted this about the interfriends staff team:
"maybe nazis should show up at YOUR door and see how you feel. except I would never do that because that's WRONG"
This is an exact quote. Two staff members are ethnically Jewish. Two are Indigenous (one is Native & reconnecting Jewish). All three staff members are from marginalized ethnic and racial backgrounds. All three have faced immense bigotry and danger in real life. The Jewish staff members have suffered at the hands of nazis IN REAL LIFE. He doesn't need to see how they feel. They already lived it.
Intersexbunny can't do Schrödingers asshole and be like, "except I would never..." Immediately after wishing it. It still said it. He still said nazis should show up at their doors. You can't just say horrific shit about people and then follow it up with "... but."/"... except." That's not how that works. You just fucking said it. Inside thoughts should remain inside thoughts.
One could say "oh but it didn't know the staff were Indigenous and Jewish!" He was in the server for 5 hours before being banned for his history of ableism and dismissal of other disabled people. One of the staff members is openly Jewish in hys introduction. The owner is openly Indigenous. The server owner has hyr tribe's language in hyr name also. Regardless, this isn't something you should be saying to or about anyone! Especially when America is literally a fascist country right now.
Intersexbunny had access to all of this information after clicking verify, along with the fact that the owner is an OEA survivor, so the implications that the owner is "running a cult" that it is spewing is extremely calculated and targeted.
Additionally, Intersexbunny has been lying by omission and allowing anonymous askers to whitejacket the server and staff team, along with the owner of Interlaced, who is Asian. He has made no effort to correct this misinformation and allows people to keep calling them all white when he himself is the only white person in this equation, weaponizing its white tears against BIPOC that a select amount of his following have fallen for.
Oh, and completely unrelated, he's completely turned his back on the intersex community. He reblogged a perisex TRF yesterday with the intersexist B slur in her name.
Also, he claimed that Interfriends staff "doxxed" him by sharing chat logs where no personal information was shared. He needs to learn what doxxing is because that is not what was done. He complains about his birth year being shared in a screenshot of his 18+ application, when the application was screenshotted because his answer to the definition of pro-kink was literally only 4 words ("supportive of all kink"), and not well thought out, which tipped the staff off that it didn't have good intentions and just wanted in the category for no nefarious purposes at all within only 10 minutes of joining and not even making an introduction or saying hello. He came in with full intentions of causing trouble.
Additionally, his birth year is public information because it has his age in its pinned post on Tumblr. 2025-21 is basic ass math. The staff and members also believe that his concerns about "internet safety" are bullshit because he posts photos of its face on its disability side blog and reblogged it to his intersex blog. Additionally, it publically shares his location (where he lives) on Tumblr. That isn't practicing internet safety. It seems he was deliberately grasping at straws to harm a marginalized community.
Srry for the long ask about this. I'm just pissed off from witnessing this all unfold.
This is.... A metric ton of bullshit.
We blocked intersexbunny almost immediately after Judas called him out and the owner of the server sent us an ask, (we did get a lil curious but immediately left his blog alone because it was all just. Nonsense. We did see the first post saying Nazi's should show up at the server admin's door, which was. Fucking insane.) and to hear all of this is just. Wow. I genuinely don't know what to say to all of that. (Also the fact that one of them is an OEA survivor and he said that? Jesus fuck....)
He's gone completely sideways on basically everything and it's so disappointing to see.
This is: intersexism, antisemitism, racism and ableism (with a sprinkle of antisexualism because of how it didn't respect the rules of the adult server and predatorjacketed the mods for not letting him in without his birthday, and the fact one of the mods is a SW themself)
