#antisexualism

"maybe nazis should show up at YOUR door and see how you feel. except I would never do that because that's WRONG"

This is an exact quote. Two staff members are ethnically Jewish. Two are Indigenous (one is Native & reconnecting Jewish). All three staff members are from marginalized ethnic and racial backgrounds. All three have faced immense bigotry and danger in real life. The Jewish staff members have suffered at the hands of nazis IN REAL LIFE. He doesn't need to see how they feel. They already lived it.

Intersexbunny can't do Schrödingers asshole and be like, "except I would never..." Immediately after wishing it. It still said it. He still said nazis should show up at their doors. You can't just say horrific shit about people and then follow it up with "... but."/"... except." That's not how that works. You just fucking said it. Inside thoughts should remain inside thoughts.

One could say "oh but it didn't know the staff were Indigenous and Jewish!" He was in the server for 5 hours before being banned for his history of ableism and dismissal of other disabled people. One of the staff members is openly Jewish in hys introduction. The owner is openly Indigenous. The server owner has hyr tribe's language in hyr name also. Regardless, this isn't something you should be saying to or about anyone! Especially when America is literally a fascist country right now.

Intersexbunny had access to all of this information after clicking verify, along with the fact that the owner is an OEA survivor, so the implications that the owner is "running a cult" that it is spewing is extremely calculated and targeted.

Additionally, Intersexbunny has been lying by omission and allowing anonymous askers to whitejacket the server and staff team, along with the owner of Interlaced, who is Asian. He has made no effort to correct this misinformation and allows people to keep calling them all white when he himself is the only white person in this equation, weaponizing its white tears against BIPOC that a select amount of his following have fallen for.

Oh, and completely unrelated, he's completely turned his back on the intersex community. He reblogged a perisex TRF yesterday with the intersexist B slur in her name.

Also, he claimed that Interfriends staff "doxxed" him by sharing chat logs where no personal information was shared. He needs to learn what doxxing is because that is not what was done. He complains about his birth year being shared in a screenshot of his 18+ application, when the application was screenshotted because his answer to the definition of pro-kink was literally only 4 words ("supportive of all kink"), and not well thought out, which tipped the staff off that it didn't have good intentions and just wanted in the category for no nefarious purposes at all within only 10 minutes of joining and not even making an introduction or saying hello. He came in with full intentions of causing trouble.

Additionally, his birth year is public information because it has his age in its pinned post on Tumblr. 2025-21 is basic ass math. The staff and members also believe that his concerns about "internet safety" are bullshit because he posts photos of its face on its disability side blog and reblogged it to his intersex blog. Additionally, it publically shares his location (where he lives) on Tumblr. That isn't practicing internet safety. It seems he was deliberately grasping at straws to harm a marginalized community.

Srry for the long ask about this. I'm just pissed off from witnessing this all unfold.

This is.... A metric ton of bullshit.

We blocked intersexbunny almost immediately after Judas called him out and the owner of the server sent us an ask, (we did get a lil curious but immediately left his blog alone because it was all just. Nonsense. We did see the first post saying Nazi's should show up at the server admin's door, which was. Fucking insane.) and to hear all of this is just. Wow. I genuinely don't know what to say to all of that. (Also the fact that one of them is an OEA survivor and he said that? Jesus fuck....)

He's gone completely sideways on basically everything and it's so disappointing to see.

sex🤮🤮🤮

emotional intimacy🤤🤤🤤

sex🤮🤮🤮

any kind of intimacy other than sex🤤🤤🤤

sex🤮🤮🤮

The US is a fascist state that legislates sex and reproduction as punishments for "Christian" "sins" both active and inherent.

Sex has been increasingly removed from and stigmatized in the public consciousness.

Diverging from the christofascist preference for sex between married, cisgender heterosexuals with the implicit understanding that the woman may die of it and is deserving of death as a result, is also increasingly stigmatized.

Whether you have sex they dislike, or refuse to have the sex they do like, you are equated with child molesters and animal rapists for the singular purpose of justifying violence done against you.

If there ever was a time for such jokes in the west with its insane stigmatization of sex as a result of monarchal breeding habits by colonial powers? It ended at the same time the sex positivity movement was replaced by white supremacists feeding on the sexual anxieties of "incels" and radical feminists hypnotized a cult of children into violently attacking small artists who so much as talk about sex.

The time for cute jokes about how Wizards Are Better Than Sex and sex prevents wizard RP from occurring is over.

The time for joking that immediate extrajudicial execution is the appropriate response to someone acknowledging they like sexual content and do not want to have their access to it policed by turncoat bootlickers never existed in the first place.

The shortest possible version of events is thus:

4chan raiders decided to fracture the tumblr queer community by making up an imaginary gender for child molesters, “clovergender.”

Because people on this website are godforsaken, they bought into that, and believed quite genuinely that there was a secret, massive conspiracy of child molesters on this website seeking to rape various underage users.

In the context of this conspiracy nonsense, antisexual radical feminists stepped in to advance their own goals, by suggesting that anyone who engages in certain forms of kink or reads certain types of fiction is one of these child-rapists-in-waiting.

Simultaneous to this development, the popularization of “stimboards” as an evolution of moodboards/aesthetic boards and “so satisfying” gifs occurred.

Stimboards were highly popular with two major groups (often overlapping): fandoms, and tumblr’s LGBTQIAPN+ population. 

Because those were the two groups that were also targetted by the antisexual radical feminists and by 4chan’s nonsense, stimboard makers were convinced that their art would be used to groom and rape children unless they “made sure” that it “couldn’t be” by putting up those banners.

However, because radical feminists had convinced these artists that the “real” child molesters were adults engaging in consensual relationships and/or “shippers,” the “preventative banners” mostly targetted those groups.

The irony that these people genuinely believe that the only thing between a rapist and their victim is a 15x500px banner is hilarious and deeply, deeply depressing.

ETA: Per first hand accounts from a member of the kidcore/cleancore community that pre-dated the stim community, it is important to note that internal politics were also a huge factor. Due to the overlap between people who age regress due to trauma or illness, and those who age regress in the context of kink, some people within the kidcore community found the existence of a kink that could be confused for their mental illness to be extremely upsetting, and elected to fight against that themselves.