#interaction rules

ESSENTIALS...

age in bio to interact

be at least 18+ to follow this blog! block the ꩜ ; the rabbit hole tag from settings to continue to not see nsfw/dc in regards to my blog.

this is not necessarily a complete MDNI blog as blogs 18> may interact with my sfw writing, but any minors and blank blogs following me and/or interacting with my nsfw/dc writing will be blocked on sight.

this is a fub free blog! but i monitor my account closely and block liberally—abide by warnings, know your responsibility as a reader, and understand why here.

do not interact if...

under 18 yrs of age interacting with nsfw/dc, are in basic dni criteria (homophobic, transphobic, racist, terf, etc...), map supporter, zionist, uncomfortable with listed dark content, kink accounts, pro-ana/ed accounts, pro-censorship, are an ai "artist/writer"

i dabble in dark content, but i never condone such irl and simply like to write about it; dni if you are uncomfortable with it or believe i can't differentiate fiction from reality.

inbox interactions

i take emoji/character anons! just send me a message with your desired emoji/character and i'd be more than happy to let you pop into my inbox :D taken: 🍡, 🪿, 🎤, 🍒, 🫐🥞, 🕯️

i don't do requests! but i might expand on a certain idea that you share! sharing your own thoughts, ideas, thirsts, as well as just saying a hello, are always welcomed!

if i don't answer your inbox message, it's nothing personal i promise! i might just not know how to answer it or may not have the energy to.

other

this blog is not spoiler-free, but will filter out any new leaks/chapters that come along the way. (block #[fandom] spoilers tag if you don't want to see them)

with spam-liking, please do it in moderation and at the very least reblog something! support your creators!

i am diagnosed with adhd, meaning i do have trouble with time management and getting tasks done (even if i enjoy doing them; like writing!). things will get done, things won't, and as much as i attempt to keep everyone happy, some times things just don't work out. i ask of you to respect that if that's ever the case.

in regards to above, tone indicators are also very much appreciated!

WRITING...

writings

i write for gender-neutral & feminine readers with afab anatomy, and use they/them & she/her pronouns.

i write an even mix of sfw and nsfw and dabble in dark content.

i interact freely with nsfw/dc content & writers; anything of such will always be tagged appropriately.

all characters talked about are deemed aged up to 20's unless stated otherwise. simply block or dni if you disagree with this; it saves us both the hassle.

CONTENT...

content will include...

suggestiveness, dark content, whump, yandere behavior, violence, sacrilege, power dynamics, fwb, masochism, sadism, pregnancy, parenthood, children, character deaths, hybrids, omegaverse, character deaths, alcohol, marijuana, predator/prey dynamics, dollification

dubcon, stalking, gore, body horror, body mutilation, blood, cannibalism, cnc, somnophilia, dacryphilia, drugging, manipulation, gaslighting, humiliation, degredation, choking/breathplay

to filter, use cw/tw ; [ tag ] ↳ normal tags use cw (ie: cw ; yandere) ↳ italicized tags use tw (ie: tw ; cannibalism) please let me know via ask or messages if i forget a tag.

content will not include...

incest, pseudo-incest, noncon/sa, self-harm to reader, scat, feederism, vomit kink/emetophilia, piss, petplay (hybrids are fine), teacher or prof/student relationships, minor in a romantic relationship with adult, ddlg, daddy kink, bimbo!reader, male-bodied!reader

MUTUAL INTERACTIONS...

general interactions

i am turtle slow with interactions (another consequence of adhd), but i do try my very best to get to everyone! i just ask for your patience in return <3

feel free to tag me in any works/posts you think i'd be interested in!

i often use petnames/endearments (angel, love, darling), so lmk if you're uncomfortable with such!

mutuals can ask for my discord as well!

breaking the mutual

if we have an issue and you'd rather not talk about it, hard block me to avoid future confusions. i value communication, but i also value your boundaries and i don't take it to heart if ever the case.

— Please put an age indicator somewhere easily located on your blog

— I do not interact with character anons (I do take normal anons)

Unavailable anon emojis: 🦋 🍙 🍠 🐾 ⚜️ 🫧 🥂🥔 🐈‍⬛ 🦊 🌷🧄🦉💗⚡️🪷🍒

— Do not repost, edit, or translate my content

— I do not take general requests, but I do take "prompts" where you can let me know what you're thinking and I can elaborate on it! (It is not a guarantee that I will write a short drabble in response to your prompt)

— Are you an 18+ blog? If yes, I highly recommend checking out this post of minor users you may need to block due to their interactions with my own 18+ content

— Interested in blocking certain tags? Check out this post

Trigger warnings (tw) and content warnings (cw) will always be included in the tags and at the beginning of posts

This blog DOES interact with and write for select dark content themes!

I do not write......male reader, pegging, pseudo-incest, incest, self-harm/EDs/etc., cheating/accidental cheating/pseudo cheating, breath/knife/gun/scat play or feeder kinks, drug usage by reader, role play, DDLG/daddy & mommy kink, degradation, or pregnancy/marriage/proposals/childbirth/biological-parentage when in regard to reader.

I have updated my interaction rules 😊.

If you are 12 years old or younger, please don't interact with me directly.

I am not saying this to be condescending about your age or patronize you in any way. You may follow me if you like, too. But please respect this wish of mine - the topics I discuss and my point of view on Bungou Stray Dogs is nothing I want to actively share with children, it feels inappropriate.

Before you send an ask or message, please be aware I have a few requests for interaction to make sure i feel comfortable on my blog:

Please do not speak in babytalk / little talk as it makes me feel awkward and uncomfy. If you are little and can’t avoid it, its best to message/send an ask when you are no longer little.

Please don't tell me you love me, it really puts me on the spot and makes me feel weird.

Please do not vent to me about your struggles, ask for life advice*, or discuss any kind of heavy subject matter. Please seek appropriate help elsewhere. (*writing advice is fine though!)

Please avoid discussion of height unless it is about the characters’ heights. It’s just a personal insecurity of mine. I dont want to hear how tall you are so please stop casually dropping your height!! idk why ppl do that

Please do not send asks that centre around food or eating, especially overeating (mentioned in passing is fine!)

Please do not use the laugh cry emoji face - I know this one is specific and I won’t hold it against you if you forget, but please try not to.

Please don't have multiple anon signoffs if you are only one person! Exceptions to this rule include systems and people who ask me personally for permission. Explained here!

Little Logan, Little Patton, Little Janus, and Little Remus make me really uncomfortable, so please try to avoid talk about them in my asks or messages!

Please don't send fic recs! Even though I appreciate the thought, I don't actually read agere fic for a bunch of reasons!

Please do not send me criticism or corrections of my writing!

My messages are open if people want to ask things about the AU but please keep in mind that I do not want to strike up a friendship with anyone under the age of 18! I just personally prefer being around older people

Thank you for respecting my boundaries!

Oh, so you do want to chat, how lovely! I always enjoy when customers want to converse. We can talk as much and as long as you'd like, if you just follow a few, easy rules.

The basis for conversation in my café is simple:

Be polite, respectful and kind at all times.

If you keep that in mind, you can always strike a conversation through comments, reblogs or public asks with me! Please refrain from dm-ing me though if we did not make each other's acquaintance yet, except in the following cases:

we are mutuals

you want to thank me for a request you send in as anon but don't wish to reveal yourself to everyone

you feel there's any kind of sensitive matter you'd rather settle with me in private

Besides that, there are some topics which I wish to avoid in this café due to personal reasons:

any discussions about politics or religious arguments (I might reblog posts about such matters, but I prefer to keep it at this passive level of discourse)

animal cruelty and animal death

eating disorders

alcoholism and heavy drug consumption

suicidal thoughts/suicide

Important Note: If we are (close) friends, you may still talk to me about such topics if you ask for my consent in beforehand.

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Even though I doubt any people with ill intentions will bother to read my interaction rules before contacting me, I feel like I should mention in which cases I would advise you not to interact at all:

If you are...

12 years old or younger (I am not saying this to be condescending about your age or patronize you in any way. You may follow me if you like, too. But please respect this wish of mine - the topics I discuss and my point of view on Bungou Stray Dogs is nothing I want to share with children, it feels inappropriate.)

sexist

homophobe

racist

support incest or rape

...then please refrain from contacting me.

Alas, I also want to mention that it is not worth sending any kind of hateful message, as it will be either ignored or instantly deleted. So don't bother <3☺.

And last, but not least: If we are not acquainted, then please don't just dump your problems on me out of the blue. I am always willing to let people talk about their struggles and give consolation or advise, but I am no therapist or trash can. I understand your suffering and your desperate need to not be alone with your struggles, but nor am I acquainted with you and your situation in general, nor am I equipped to help with serious problems and such behaviour would only lead to both of us suffering in the end.

Keep fighting, dear 💙.

Refer to the following below, thank you.

Discussion is invited, however discourse and derogatory speech is not, and will not be, tolerated.

Do not repost, plagiarize, or edit any reviews.

Media I engage with may contain explicit, mature, and/or unsavory content themes; I ask that this blog remain an 18+ space for interaction.

Lastly, feel free to submit recommendations!

1. 18+

2. Absolutely no discrimination

3. No political discussion

4. No religious discussion

5. No unreclaimed slurs

5.a Do not use slurs towards anyone

6. Be respectful of my reality.

6.a Don't argue with me if I remember details of my life differently than how you interpreted our show.

6.b Don't push ships that don't exist in my reality. There's nothing wrong with shipping, just don't try to force me to validate relationships that don't exist in my memories.

6.c Don't make fun or belittle any pairings that are true in my reality, regardless of if you personally like the ship.

7. I reserve the right to block any user, delete any ask, and reject any submission, at any time and for any reason.