#inner bitch

🔥🔥🔥 SHE'S GOT PARTICULAR TᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃSTE 🔥🔥🔥

So I am NOT good with conflict or confrontation. I already worry that people don’t like me, and so end up being a bit of a doormat... but I have a work situation that I need to resolve. My boss (and my therapist, and my husband, and one of my closest friends) want me to grow a backbone. I’ve put it off for a few days, but in a couple of hours I get to go talk to someone about an issue I’m having with one of their subordinates. I feel like a bit of a tattletale but this person is not being a good partner, and as my boss says “don’t make excuses for other people being bad at their jobs”  I’ve planned out how to approach it and what I’m going to say. But I’m still feeling anxious.  Wish me luck. 

Do not regret it though. Love them, but I am not a cousin-keeper.

Today, I am feeling very emotional for the fuckboys in my life, Thank you so much for showing me that I deserve much better. Everything happens for a reason, the reason you entered my life was to show me that bad people exist and I should stay away from them, and also that good people exist too. They help us to finally be happy to find a good guy and not find him boring. Boring guys are the good ones. Fuckboys would make your heart beat faster, but only a good guy would make you feel secure. But unless and until you save yourself and be your own hero, you would find the bad ones interesting and the good ones not exciting enough. Own your baddassery, embrace your inner bitchness, then you would find the courage to be unapologetically you. Be you. Love yourself. Celebrate you. Till the time you find yourself and fall for her. That's all, this is where you stop. No search for prince charming, no hero is coming to save you. This is where you stop your search. From this point on, I will love myself and if a guy comes ( totally optional ), he will find the inner me sexy. The girl who goes out alone to dinners and day outs. Don't wait for him, honey. He is on his own journey, ( which may lead him to you, may not, totally depending on his free will ) If you two alchemists do collide and decide to give this alchemy a try, it will then be legendary and nothing short of magic.

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