Mother, Hobbyist

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Update on life I now have a stalker 🤦🏼‍♀️, my ex is now my stalker - yes the police and my lawyer have been notified - background story - after many months of not seeing him ( thank the Lord) I decided with my son to go out to browns bay ( my child is now 15 and taller than me 😂) my father is a pastor and even tho I am not a full on church going christian I do believe in forgiving others that hurt you even if they never apologize so you can move forward in life. I had done this with other people over the last 3 months and waited a whole month to write a note to my ex telling him i forgive him for his lies even tho he has never apologized ( he never will apologize cos he's a narcissist and they never believe they do anything wrong ) 😑, anyway so what I wrote was basically what I wrote above + my son placed it under his window wiper and that was it ( unfortunately that wasn't it ) he tracked me down in browns bay and then proceeded to stalk me thru the shops with my son present, then when our bus arrived ( there is a 3-5min time from when it changes from being the 878 to the 865 ) he bailed me up Infront of this shop I stepped back cos he was a tad close to me ( he's also gained a ton of weight and is now shorter than me - the larger you are the shorter in height you get - he looks like the Grinch when he stands sideways just bigger 😏) anyway he asks me what the note means like seriously it's not rocket science it's not that hard to read, it's not anything complicated I basically just wrote " I forgive you for the lies you told about me at the start of the year even tho you have never apologized " - there is no other way you can interprete that it's straight to the point. I said to him it says what it says, if you can't read it find a friend to do so for you. And left it at that told him I had to go as my bus was here. He starts insulting me telling me I need a man ( 😂 no I am a strong independent woman and he hates that ) I told him I don't want to date Incase I end up with another narscassitic person like himself and got on the bus. He waits about 1 min after we get on the bus goes to the door of the bus screaming at the bus driver that I am drunk ( I haven't had any alcohol for 20yrs I am on cancer prevention treatments and drugs I can't drink or have alcohol on them) and then tells him look at me I am drunk the bus driver thought he was nuts after telling the bus driver I don't drink and that he wad stalker the bus driver told him to leave and closed the door - he asked if I wanted to ring the cops 🤦🏼‍♀️- I told him I would do that when I got home ( the bus has cameras what a fruit loop I had physical evidence right there that I now could use against him) he then proceeded to follow the bus ( what the fuck ) 😳, lucky for us our bus driver didn't have many pick ups or drop offs and we managed to get to our stop and cross the road before my ex came up the road - cos we were already on our street he drove past ( I know my neighbors ) I rung the cops and my lawyer but cos of NZ laws there is nothing they can do except warn him ( which is said I didn't want to add more fuel to his already screwed up fire) but they did note down his name and car license plate and make and model also his birthday ( I remember everything like that ) I was also told to obtain a personal alarm apparently anything like pepper spray, tasers, stun guns, self defense keychains that are sold overseas we can't use, all you can use is a personal alarm unless he puts his hands on me I can't touch him - and the day he does put his hands on me all the self defense from the classes I took and from the army I learnt is going to all come out he's going to wish he wasn't such a dick when he does I will break him 😑 cos to be honest I am just done with someone who can't understand the word no at 46yrs old 😑.

When you find out that the kid that bullied your son on the school bus has now been expelled from the school for smoking drugs in the bathroom at school 🤦🏼‍♀️, I think his mother has just given up on him which is pretty sad most mother's will go out if their way to do whatever to teach their kids lessons and discipline them she has just given up the kid now had no school to attend and just does what he wants he's got no qualifications cos he's been expelled and he parents will have to enroll him in another school, the kids also been caught smoking ice ( meth in crystal form) he's only 15 😐.

Part 2

Today I am going to share with you abit about my last relationship yes it ended over a year ago but there are now things that I never said anything about that should be addressed – first off the relationship ended when my ex decided he didn’t want to be in one anymore and ended it on my birthday 🙄 Secondly it was what followed 5mths after the relationship that has been the opening of my eyes and seen who he truly is that had made me not trust anything he ever said to me and realized he is a narcissistic persn who doesn’t take responsibility for his actions and loves to play victim. Let’s start at Feb – well school start my son goes to the biggest high school in Auckland – my ex is a groundsman there ( Damian Gannaway) – I would often come to the school afterwards and collect my child sometimes we would go to the library and gets some books out or to see what free ones they were giving away – I call it book rescuing 😂, I recently bought about 100 books on sale as the place I normally buy my books from is closing down permanently 😐, cost of obtaining them from overseas is too costly. One day I got called into one of the deputy principals offices he had a complaint that I was upsetting my exes mental health being on the school grounds – seriously 😳. Anyway I was told I had to wait off the school grounds til the bell rung – so i did and when he complained it was after school hours – anyway 3 weeks later this same deputy principal emails me telling me I can’t come onto the school grounds as my ex apparently had laid some police complaint ( it was completely false – went to the police station and spoke to the police my name wasn’t in their system and no complaint or case number was issued ) so he straight up lied to have me removed from the school grounds – with this information in hand I not only got a letter from the police saying this I got referred to a lawyer. Long story short I had a lot of reasons I could have had him legally charged -my goal was to clear my name and have the school assess how they deal with people who chose to lie about someone to have them trespassed for no reason – not only did I clear my name I told them I wouldn’t be laying charges simply cos I wasn’t vindictive. Part 2 tomorrow 😎

My son who is going to be 15 this year

Remembering this time 3yrs ago when COVID was first announced and people started buying toilet paper like it was the end of the world 😆😎

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