#igodye_: How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man?* *● Children school fees* *● house rents* *● Electricity bills* *● Medical bills* *● Generator fuel & repairs* *● Car fuel and repairs* *● Feeding of family* *● Clothes for children* *● Sallah or Christmas and New year bills* *● Furniture & House maintenance* *● In-laws wahala/demand* *● His own aged parents* *● His siblings most times* *● His wife's demands* *● Vigilante bills* *● Erecting Building* *● Religious demands* *● Family social bills* *● Electronics bills* *● Recharge cards* *● Extended family bills* *● Community demands* *On top of the above, he also faces:* *● Wife stress* *● Boss stress at work* *● Police stress on the way* *● Area boys stress* *● Kidnappers fear* *● Friends stress* *● Economy stress* *● Fear of job loss* *● Unemployment pains* *● Armed Robbery stress* *● Children misbehaviour* *● Neighbours stress* *● Bank loan payment stress* *● Enemies stress* *● Demonic attack stress* *● Sex stress* *..and so on! OMG!!* *Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home?* *Are men not trying? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man?* *Women, please give your husband's peace at home. Encourage your husbands.* *Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early! Note:* *That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family. Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging.* *Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!* *Help your partner to live longer like you. #MabelHUB #MH #Word https://www.instagram.com/p/BxhnYLZFqcn/?igshid=tn5wp4v0bb9m