#identitity

Just encourage all cute boys to wear skirts tbh

So my favourite colours in no particular order are:

Red

Purple

Blue,

Green,

Orange,

Black,

And anything multicoloured.

I enjoy anything that is 2 toned, multi-coloured, eye catching and I generally prefer bright colours over pastel colours. This is because bright colours tend to lift my spirit. I find colour a good way to express your feelings or your art in general but I also just feel like…

From time to time I see people struggling to figure out who they are. Questioning, confused about their gender, their orientation, their identity. I still remember how it felt being like that myself, desperate to understand who I am and how I fit in. And I may have an advice. It’s ok to be confused. It’s ok to not know.

I guess the feeling had always been there but after finishing high school and gradually starting to do the whole college/adult life thing I slowly became overwhelmed by a feeling of being broken, of not belonging. I spent two years of my life desperately trying to figure myself out, angry at myself that I couldn’t find the words to describe my experience. Until one day I just gave up. I stopped. “I’m not broken. I’m questioning. I don’t know what I am, but I’m not broken. I’m not any lesser for not knowing. I’m confused and that’s ok.” It would take me more than a year more before I started understanding myself to some degree and I’m still not entirely done trying to figure it all out. But that moment of giving up trying to find a place I could fit myself into and accepting my feelings as they were was the most necessary step of that journey.

George R.R. Martin, A Game of Thrones