#idealguy

My Ideal Guy

I want a guy who is mysterious and cool.

He is hilarious but charming in his own ways. 

He is someone who is silently romantic but caring and LOYAL! 

The way he looks at me is so mesmerizing that I know his love to me is overflowing! 

We all have our own standards. We have our own likes and dislikes, own ideal girl and ideal guy. My Ideal guy is exactly him.

Why? Because he would give me flowers. Simple as that.

He is the guy that would imitate me when making faces like wacky which makes me laugh because he looks cute.

A guy who accepts me despite of, me being weird

A guy who knows how to handle my mood swings

A guy who is proud to have me by his side

A guy who watches over me, checks whether I’m okay or not

A guy who is thoughtful and always there to support me 

A guy who completely knows me

And a guy who knows how to fear God, thank God, and give praises to God.

My ideal is exactly like him, oh wait, My ideal guy is exactly him.

As I grew up my dream guy is someone who is impossible to exist. A guy who looks like Usui Takumi (Kaichou wa Maid-sama)

or Ikuto Tsukiyomi (Shugo Chara). 

or of course Mamoru Chiba (Sailormoon).

At the present a guy like Lee Joon Gi,

 Lee Jong Suk,

and Lee Dong Wook are my ideal guy (Come on who wouldn’t?) when it comes to looks.

 On the voice area it will be all of the voices of my dear SF9 (if it is possible though).

But even though the four latter pictures are real persons let me list down my ideal guy. An ideal which is(possibly) within my reach unlike those persons and anime characters above.

1. I like a person who is loyal.

I am a person whose naivete is one of my reigning quality. I tend to believe someone easily and i am not really good at discerning truth from a lie. That is the reason why I need a guy who is loyal. I do live my life with a give and take. What he will give me in this relationship, he will gain it also from me.

2. A person who can understand me the most, even if I don’t show any emotions that I love him. 

My personality is a type of personality who doesn’t really know how express my feelings. It is hard for me to tell something like ‘I love you’ so he may not hear those words always. But My actions speaks louder than my words. I could hug him and etc. Lastly, sometime I need time alone and I wish this guy would respect that.

3. A person who knows how to cook.

A woman like me who is a lot bigger than normal size girls, need a guy who can fill me my stomach with his cookings.

4. A person who supports me in everything I do.

I will pursue medicine in college and it will be really long and challenging phase in my life. I like a guy who could support me, comfort me in in my times of need and do it in every way he can. And In turn I will try my best to support him also.

5. A person who knows how to tell the truth.

Just like what i said in the first one. I need a person who can tell me the truth because of my naivete. If i found him lying to me expect the same thing. I am patient for what he may do, but I am Virgo who knows how to take a thing call revenge,

6. A person who will love me.

I would like to have a person in my life that accepts who I am, even if I am a Virgo woman who sometimes can be a ‘beach’. A person that will accepts all of me, a guy who who respect me, a guy who can acknowledge me and correct me if I did something wrong.

7. Last but not the least, a guy who catch my attention away from my crush.

Having a crush on one guy is one thing but when an another guy stole my attention away from my crush. Well I am in a deep trouble cause a guy had made a move in my heart without an effort.

P.S.

What is your definition of an ideal guy? 

Handsome? Smart? 

Probably my ideal guy would be someone who inspires me in everything. A person that brings out the best in me and someone whom you can count on when everything is falling apart. 

Maybe this guy? 

He is my inspiration in everything I do. My ideal guy would be someone whom I know I can rely on. Someone that is “shy” but NOT REALLY! trust me. hehe. 

Someone who enjoys goofing around and play silly jokes with me. 

A guy that would do simple surprises to make me happy and thankful. 

A guy who would look at you like you’re the most beautiful lady in the universe!

Those are just the things that I want and probably have with my ideal guy :) Have you found your IDEAL GUY? 

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” - Lao Tzu

Guy or girl? meh...who cares anyways? This is a new generation, we choose what we love (gender equality?). Back to the topic, there’s no such thing as a perfect guy or girl but if someone close to your heart is the one that makes you feel happy, then he/she might be the one. Anyways...

If guy:

-Cute

-Honest

-Trustworthy

-Caring

-Young :P

-”Love”worthy

-Loyal (<--- Does this word even exist?)

-and of course...someone who would accept who I am.

If girl:

-Same as the above :D

Yep, everything I’ve typed is what I expect my “the one” to be. Every traits that I’ve gave is acceptable to both category. Remember, these traits are just in my mind but once you’ve found your “the one”, hold him/her tight for “Love is never the same thing twice, It will only happen once.” 

What is an Ideal Guy?

1. Rich

2. Famous

3. Has a car

4. Own a house

5. Handsome

6. Tall

7. Slim

8. Intelligent

These are the typical dream guy traits that every girl wants, but we do not live in fairy tales nor in books. Maybe there are some who are lucky and deserving to have this type of guys, but surely he doesn’t possess all of these traits. Why? Because nobody in this world is perfect.

In our whole life, finding the right guy to be with is one of the hardest decision for us to make, especially now in our generation where living is too hard and pricey. Honestly, I also want and dream to be with a guy who possess those traits, but I know that’s impossible and this is reality it will be an eternity or it might not happen if I keep waiting for that guy of my dreams.

In fact, I believe we don’t need to find the guy of our dreams, but rather find the guy who accepts us, especially our imperfections, bring out the best in us, determined, mature, respectful, value his family and of course has fear of God. Inner beauty, for me is my basis and you should too, than the outside appearance and other valuable things he might posses because inner beauty doesn’t fade while physical traits and things does. 

Though as we grow, we don’t follow or any more consider this traits because in love there’s no certain standard to follow, it will and will be change as cupid strikes you with his arrow. You’ll accept and love that guy no matter what, just believe in God’s perfect timing. And for me that’s how I find my ideal guy, I may have some standards for now but I know for sure in the end it will change following my happiness in life base on his inner self. 

-Miranda, Ashley Colleen S.      08-27-17