#i muse

clearly, that is a refereance to a person being insincere and deceitful.

however - and i am reaching here - but it could also be two faced.

two individuals.

OK, I am fan of some actors who are queer in a glass closet and I need to rant a bit. There are fandoms of actors that I love as far as fanfiction and fanart, but when it crosses the line, they irk me. And this is particularly true with actors who have hinted they aren't straight. (and BTW, I am queer myself and happy when a queer actor comes out in their terms) There are two factions of a fandom that exhaust me, but I will go one by one with them to avoid confusion about my points: 1) The part of the fandom that rams comments about the sexuality of a glass closet person. No, I am not talking about the "I wish they would come out," "we are there for them when they come out," that are okay in wishing representation and don't sound demanding. I am talking more about the ones that insist they should come out, the ones that ram on that the actor is "gay" (and normally is "gay" because the possibility of other non-straight sexualities doesn't exist in most of these), or the ones that ram on in videos of actors flirting with different genders (even if they include similar genders). Two reasons being: A) That I am so used to crush on straight female artists I don't have a chance with either, that it really doesn't make a difference if an actor or actress likes only men. And B) The level of forcing someone to come out like the media mob has done to Kit Connor*. And sometimes coming out is a huge risk of one's career they might not be ready to take yet. To illustrate the point B, scroll down to the video made by gay youtuber James Somerton about the issue. He can put it a bit more eloquently than me. 2) On the same token, the opposite sex/different gender people who get defensive whenever someone mentions that an actor is not straight. Like come on! If the different gender actor is LGBTQ+ (and I mention LGBTQ+ because these sorts of people sometimes even get defensive if the artist is mentioned as bi+. Basically any nonstraight sexuality!) It sometimes almost makes me understand group 1 despite the cringe. Almost. (I also have an issue with thirst tweets in general, but that's another story altogether.