#hyoipears

woah pas dude youve improved so much since ive last seen your art???? im love

aaaaaaa thanks :’’) 

Not a “direct” answer, but an article I found useful: medium.com/clued-i…

Ooh, that is useful! Thank you! <3

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im exactly like that too! i have yearly checkups with a gynocologist, and she says it’s nothing to worry about. you could be borderline pcos like i am, but if you’re experiencing no other symptoms and it’s always been like that, you should be a-okay

yeah like on the one hand, the more people who go in and tell them it’s fucked up, the more likely it might be that it makes a difference in changing the rules? but i dont think they keep things on record, and it says within the past, what, 12 months right? so next time you go if they ask about it then say yeah it was within a year then but now it’s not, on account of how time passing is a thing. so needle me up bitches

tbh it’s only 4 more months anyway and with Beltane starting up (and my studies lol what’s that) I probably won’t have time to do it before then 

I thought I could give them the middle finger and go do it when I’m in Germany but seems that the rules there are EVEN WORSE WHAT THE FUCK (actually only maybe they don’t seem to have the women who have sex with men who have sex with men rule but certainly worse for men)

however I could technically argue my way through with this which one of the European courts ruled:  Der generelle Ausschluss der MSM von der Blutspende ist deshalb nicht zulässig, wenn "es durch gezielte Fragen zum seit der letzten sexuellen Beziehung verstrichenen Zeitraum im Verhältnis zur Dauer des 'diagnostischen Fensters', zur Beständigkeit der Beziehung der betreffenden Person oder zum Schutz in der sexuellen Beziehung" möglich ist, "die Höhe des Risikos zu bewerten, das individuell durch den jeweiligen Spender aufgrund seines eigenen Sexualverhaltens besteht" 

aw honey :// can you just. lie on the forms. it’s a bs rule and they screen all the donated blood for disease anyways, just tick the other box. that’s what i do, just to spite them

I think I have a weird desire to tell them how bs the rule is?? But then never get round to it because I always get too upset (and they’re adamant anyway). I mean I’m already kinda dodgy on the having sex with people who’ve taken drugs one so yeah it shouldn’t be that much of an issue to just lie? But also now they know? So I can’t really go back because I don’t know if it’s on record? uuuuugh 

I feel so annoyed at myself for going when I knew it was unlikely, but I figured since both of us had thorough screenings done it might be ok anyway? It’s so clearly an HIV thing and I already said no on the HIV question so fuck you for asking again but like make it extra homophobic and why the fuck do you have a “don’t know” category at all when you don’t allow people to use it? 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAS!!!!!!! hope you have the bestest day ever and also i drew you as a cool space kid cause you’re Out Of This World <333

aw hope you beat up the block and Defeat It soon! and yesss it is a selfie of excellent quality

yeah i hope so too, i’ve been feeling so meh about everything in general lately 😪