#human bonding

Love is a paradox. It is rooted in biology yet elevated into meaning. At its core, love is a product of the brain. It is a cascade of neurotransmitters and hormones. These create feelings of attraction, attachment, and desire. Dopamine fuels pleasure, norepinephrine heightens excitement, and oxytocin strengthens bonds. Together, they orchestrate the symphony of human connection. From an…

The relationship is the most essential bond, which every human being needs in their life. We all humans are social creatures (except exception cases) who live in groups, and all our groups together make society. So we can say that the bonds between humans are the foundation of our society. A society where all humans do their activities by their own intelligence and views to grow up our living standards. Now the question arises: How do we define relationships? Kinds of relationships? What makes a relationship strong?

now the question is How many Emotions available in human life?, What kind of Emotions are here in human life? What types of Emotions are here in Human Life? There are many queries with different words, but the extract of all questions is the same...

Number of Emotions and Description how they act, how they control our behavior, and how may we change them if necessary?  We think we covered almost every kind of query in our own question. But if any queries come with time we will talk about them Timely.

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and I am TIRED of seeing people use it as ‘scientific proof that ROMANTIC LOVE exists~*~*~*!)

Situations in which Oxytocin levels are high in individuals: 

During breastfeeding and is an important hormone in getting mil out of the nipple

cervical dilation before child birth

perhaps associated with faster healing rates and lower inflammation (but this study is severely hetronormative and amatonormative and ONLY looks at oxytocin levels in individuals during the visiting of their opposite sex partners and did not look further ot other social interactions)

Oxytocin’s relation to sex and sexual response is STILL NOT CLEAR. though people with vaginas do seem to have increased levels after orgasm, it is far less clear if that is the case with people with penises. 

Might be linked to smooth muscle contraction during orgasm (tested during masterbation) 

Helps to reduce stress and anxiety and induces feeling of calmness YES IN THE PRESENCE OF A MATE (though done through a self reporting questionnaire and you have to be hesitant about those things) but ALSO IN THE PRESENCE OF A BEST FRIEND (keep in mind this study seems only to be done on cis men which is something that needs to be kept in mind).

TRUST is increased with oxytocin and People given oxytocin are more likely so share emotional stories to ANYONE.

importance in the initiation of maternal behavior but not maintenance. 

I would talk about Oxytocin and it’s role in in-group bonding but uh....that is a whole can of worms that I REALLY don’t want to get into. if you want to look at the research on that then please feel free to. 

AND THE MOST AWESOME ONE! Oxytocin levels increased to significant levels in BOTH dogs and humans after petting (for 24 minutes)and is likely associated with bonding with your pet! and given that oxytocin does seem to decreases anxiety SO GO PET YOUR ANIMAL it good for you and for it!!  

in conclusion STOP CALLING OXYTOCIN THE LOVE HORMONE! It is NOT! if you want to call it ANYTHING call it the BONDING hormone because it seems to play roles in all social interactions that involve the necessity to trust and interact with another human.

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"...the effects on parental behavior and thereby on the next generation are potentially the most serious. Thus a mother who, due to adverse experiences during childhood, grows up to be anxiously attached is prone to seek care from her own child and thereby lead the child to become anxious, guilty, and perhaps phobic." - Bolby, 1988