#hotspurred

this sounds really interesting! I’d be happy to search solo and see if my university has anything that might be of use to you (also, do you happen to have the title of the marlowe paper? because I’d love to read that at some point)

yup, exactly. (and on some level I know it doesn’t make sense to feel guilty because it’s not like they feel guilty for wanting what they want but I DO ANYWAY and it’s shitty. we aces can stick together and sort something out, it’s okay.)

this is kind of my big fear too— having mostly allo friends who just have inherently different values for the future makes me nervous because I know they’ll probably end up married etc and I can’t be like ‘hey wanna be my roommate for life’ (1/2)

so this is definitely something worth talking about and figuring out (as a community, I guess?) I know it’s POSSIBLE to have the kind of future that would be ideal for me as a very probably aro/ace person, there’s just not much precedent for it yet.

1) holy shit 2) I KNOW THIS FEELING…. today a guy I’d really enjoyed talking to up to that point tried to tell me how british imperialism was a great thing because ‘they were just savage tribes fighting each other, they’re better off thanks to us’

…wow, I just...

I'm not really involved with the tsh fandom, so this was actually the first time I've seen the voice meme, and I agree with a lot of what you said! (especially re richard's frustratingly vague depiction of camilla and wanting to know more about her.)

chamomile: comfort movie?

In practice, The History Boys. I used to have more but these days it is unlikely that watching a film will relax me, as they don’t distract me enough.

peppermint: what’s your favorite holiday and why?

Originally I thought this meant holiday as in going away somewhere, then I realised the questions are probably American (hence the spelling of favourite) and it means the other kind of holiday. I don’t know. Um. I like Halloween for the dressing up, but it’s not that much of a holiday, just an excuse to dress up. I don’t really like any holidays that massively.

(the answer to the other kind of holiday is probably when I went to Rome, though the one time I’ve been to America was quite cool too)

coffee: surprise coffee ask! how do you take your coffee?