A special ask just for Mod Ouma! S/O dealing with different Ouma dere types? (Tsundere Ouma, Himedere Ouma, Yandere Ouma, Kamidere Ouma??) Thank you so much! Love your work!
Anon, you know me WAY too well. Let this ask be my PRIDE AND JOY with AS MANY DERE TYPES AS I COULD POSSIBLY INCLUDE. Below the cut for long post!
Bakadere
you love him, honestly you do, and heâs very sweet, but-
sometimes he is just impossible.
âIâm sorry S/O! I completely forgot the time and then I got lost on the way here and then I showed up at the wrong restaurant but the food was sooo good there so I had to-â
every. single. date. you swear.
he canât cook, heâs way too clumsy for that.
but he tries to, because he knows youâd like it if he could.
even though it usually ends in a mess, and even though he usually canât clean up that mess without making an even bigger one.
he apologizes a lot, and you can tell heâs a upset when he does, because he really does love you dearly and he doesnât like disappointing you.
you try not to get frustrated with him, and when you tell him everything is okay and offer to help him, you can practically see his entire world brighten up.
your approval means a lot to him, he loves you!
and knowing that you love him enough to help him even if heâs not the smartest means the world to him.
sometimes he gets pretty self-conscious, he knows heâs an idiot and it honestly does upset him.
heâs sorry.
but youâre always there to make him feel better, to talk to him, to praise him, to encourage him.
and when you do, heâs back to his sunshiney personality in no time.
Bodere
it took absolutely forever for him to actually confess, and you had a few close calls when trying to get close to him!
every compliment was a risk of getting punched.
every date proposal was a risk of getting punched.
every line of flattery was a risk of getting punched.
but honestly, you canât lie, you loved seeing the way his face completely reddenned whenever you slipped in a smooth compliment, the way his fists clenched and you knew what was coming but you couldnât bring yourself to take your eyes off of the flustered expression on his face.
finally, you just had to ask about the punching. the CONSTANT punching.
a long conversation and several punches later-
âW-Well I like you! Is that what you wanted to hear?! Jeez!â
Even now, dating him, every compliment is a risk of getting punched.
But honestly? Heâs sweet, he loves you, heâs kind and he would never really intentionally want to hurt you.
But even to this day you worry that on your wedding day heâs going to punch you in the mouth instead of kissing you.
Dandere
getting close to him was definitely a struggle.
he seemed to be looking at you sometimes, he seemed interested, but he would never talk to you, and even if you initiated a conversation he was pretty quiet.
you felt pretty hopeless, there was a lot of effort on your part and very little on his.
you were starting to feel like this was more one-sided than you had thought.
and then, finally, he started opening up a little.
âWe should hang out some time.â
that was all he said, but the second he said it, you were just elated.
heâs still pretty distant and quiet, even though youâre together now, but despite that, he still enjoys cuddling you, spending time with you, little things like that.
he always looks surprised when you fluster him, the expression on his face is just adorable, you know it was worth getting to know him more, just to see the expressions on his face.
spending time with him is really nice when he opens up more, and getting to hear his laugh is actually really nice! itâs cute!
as time goes on, he does become more talkative, he seems to really like your company.
Darudere
now this was difficult and confusing, because he showed NO interest in you at all.
he was talkative, he was expressive, and he was fairly popular! he talked to a lot of people in your class, just...
never you.
he never even looked at you.
but you really did like him. he was funny, charming, cute, and decently popular too.
but he just never noticed you.
until one day, he did.
âHey, wanna come eat lunch with us? Canât be too fun sitting here alone.â
you were around all his friends, and while youâd have liked to be alone with him, this was definitely a step up!
it took a few more invitations before he finally had you alone.
he was still just treating you like an acquaintance though, nothing special.
and then, out of nowhere-
âHey, do you wanna kiss?â
he was looking at you like it was no big deal, but you could see a faint blush on his cheeks.
you didnât wait another second before kissing him.
to this day, dating him is still hard, he treats you like more of a friend than anything.
but at the few moments where you get him alone and manage to fluster him, youâre honestly in love.
itâs worth the effort.
Deredere
heâs small enough to be fully capable of clinging to you at all hours of the day.Â
he constantly wants your love and affection, and is fully willing to return it.
in public? always gotta be holding hands.
heâs very sweet, youâll admit, but almost sickeningly so.
but you just canât say no to that face.
he loves you very very much and even more than that, he loves showing it!
he loves cuddles too, so donât expect to have your side of the bed all to yourself.
expect to wake up tangled in your boyfriend.
he doesnât help much around the house, but only because heâs constantly on you.
and on days when you need it, itâs really very sweet.
and on days when you donât, itâs really very frustrating.
he just really loves you!
so when you tell him to back off, you can see heâs upset.
and the look on that adorable face breaks your heart.
you apologize with lots of hugs and cuddles, you know itâs just the kind of boyfriend he is, youâre sorry.
on rare occassions, even he needs some alone time!
usually when heâs sad or upset.
and when this happens, you really notice how good you have it, how much you enjoy his happy affection.
itâs weird to be away from him, and it sucks to know heâs upset.
but he needs space sometimes.
but not for too long.
soon you go and comfort him, cuddle him, remind him that you care about him just as much as he cares about you.
that usually cheers him up.
Hajidere
you definitely thought he was cute when you first saw him!
but you could never actually hold a conversation with him, because every time you tried, heâd get so flustered that heâd just walk away without a word!
you were a bit concerned, were you doing something wrong, was he sick?
you just couldnât converse with him without him turning into a blushing mess!
finally, you just couldnât take it anymore. you waited until everybody had left the classroom, until it was after school, until he had no excuse to run off again.
you asked him what was wrong, why he wouldnât talk to you, why he was so nervous.
he got so red you thought he had a fever.
âI-Iâm- Iâm sorry! I-I canât hide it anymore, I-I like you!â
It takes you a minute to process, and then you almost found it funny.
thatâs why he had been avoiding you? he was just flustered, just by you talking to him?!
thatâs...kind of adorable honestly.
you press a swift kiss to his lips and he practically glows red, just in absolute shock, completely flustered.
what an adorable dork.
even dating now, heâs pretty easy to fluster and fairly nervous with his affection.
but he does love you very much!
he just gets really embarrassed showing it.
itâs fun to fluster him, but sometimes itâs nice to just be calm, and quiet, and cuddle him gently at home.
thatâs nice too.
Himedere
heâs completely impossible to please.
the way he walks around like he owns you and the world is so frustrating that sometimes you just want to slap him.
but the thought of leaving a mark on that practically porcelain face is unimaginable.
he bosses you around like heâs earned the right to and it drives you crazy.
he doesnât try to get your attention, he just waits for you to give it to him.
when he praises you for listening, it feels disgustingly condescending.
you donât even know if you like him all that much, he just annoys you at most.
finally, youâve just absolutely had it with the way he acts.
now, youâre ignoring him.
you can tell it makes him furious.
now heâs trying to get your attention.
whining constantly just so youâll look his way, bitching about every little thing just so youâll hear him, taking over your favourite hangouts with his presence, heâs inescapable.
and youâre annoyed.
it only takes a few days of this for it to drive you crazy. you grab him by the shoulders and tell him to just shut up already.
he seems genuinely taken aback, speechless even.
he didnât expect this kind of reaction from you.
and suddenly, seeing him like this, wide-eyed and fascinated, you just melt.
without another thought, you kiss him, and thatâs where it all begins.
even now in dating heâs bossy and annoying, but you love it.
until you hate it.
but regardless, heâs your boyfriend, and you love him very much.
...most of the time.
Hinodere
being around him is, for the most part, really a downer.
itâs hard to get past that original coldness.
every compliment, every conversation starter, itâs all painted negatively or shot down completely.
âNice weather weâre having!â
âWho cares? Itâs supposed to rain all week anyway.â
âYou look really nice in that outfit!â
âGood, people judge you by your cover anyway, might as well doll it up.â
you just canât find a way to get through to him.
you donât know how to get it through to him that the worldâs not such a bad place to be.
he just always seems so gloomy all the time.
finally, you need to talk to him about it.
âMaybe I can show you how to live just a bit...brighter?â
he seems pretty confused and very skeptic at first.
âWell, maybe I could show you some fun. How about we meet up at five? Iâll try to change your mind.â
one amusement park outing and dozens of follow up dates later, you two are in a pretty solid relationship.
heâs still a bit cynical at times, but you can tell you definitely helped him.
and it was certainly worth it, because heâs actually really loving.
youâre a light in his life.
thatâs all he needed.
Kamidere
when you first hear about him, he sounds intimidating.
a supreme leader who views himself as a god, claiming everything and everybody as his own, ruling with an iron fist?
you were expecting somebody kind of scary.
and then you happened upon a tiny, slim, pale boy in an average school uniform, much shorter than you, shouting bossy demands at his band of followers.
which apparently now included you.
you couldnât help but listen, something about him was just endearing and adorable.
you felt the need to follow his bratty demands.
eventually, you came to a sort of realization.
he bossed you around harder than anybody else, big time.
hand most of your demands were demands that kept you in proximity to him.
âWh-What are you implying?! It is coincidence!â
it was definitely not coincidence.
his commands eventually started getting weird.
things that kept you close, things that he wouldnât ask of others.
and finally...
âMortal! I demand you to kiss me!â
you didnât even ask questions, honestly.
nowadays, you two are a couple, and a close one at that.
he definitely doesnât treat you like youâre even close to his level, but he treats you better than he treats anybody else, thatâs for sure.
heâs actually really easy to fluster for somebody who claims to be godly, and it only makes him more adorable.
it was worth all the errands you had to run for him.
Kanedere
he pays absolutely no attention to you.
you think heâs smart, cute, interesting, and he doesnât care about you at all.
that is, until you start leaving little gifts.
first itâs food, then gifts, then jewelry, then just straight cash.
youâre working three part time jobs to get this boyâs attention, but itâs working.
heâs practically glued to you, hinting for you to take him on dates, out to dinner, out anywhere really.
heâs always pointing out items or clothes heâd want you to buy him, and theyâre always ridiculously overpriced, but you suppose you donât have much of a choice if you want to keep him around.
you know he doesnât care about you, but really, thatâs okay.
you just love him a lot, and if loving him means paying him, then hell, youâll work twenty jobs if thatâs what it takes to keep him by your side.
anything to keep him happy!
as a couple, you two go out on a LOT of dates, usually to expensive malls or restaurants.
heâs a little annoyed that your schedule is so busy all the time, but you donât have the guts to tell him that itâs so busy because of all your damn jobs.
oh well. as long as heâs happy!
you really do love him a lot.
Kuudere
you can never tell quite what heâs thinking, what with him always looking out the window or reading, never an expression on his face.
heâs just...completely stony.
you can barely ever get a word or an opinion out of him, no matter how hard you try, he just cares too little.
youâre honestly finding it impossible to get to know him at this rate.
every look he gives you is one of dull, hard disinterest.
then, finally, one day he just says it, blunt and simple.
âI want you to take me out to dinner. I donât care if you donât. Itâs whatever.â
so he is interested after all!
...probably.
regardless, it means that he at least noticed you!
dinner goes...interesting??
you have to keep the conversation going for the most part, because he doesnât say much.
he has no opinion on the restaurant.
he has no opinion on the food.
he has no opinion on almost any topic.
but as things go on...he starts to warm up to you a bit.
heâs a little more open, even carrying the conversation on his own for a little bit.
you can tell itâll take time, but youâll make him open up eventually.
nowadays, youâve gotten to the point where heâs almost completely open with you.
heâs still stony and stoic with others, but not with you, never with you.
not with the person he loves.
Oujidere
youâre honestly quite surprised by how he acts around you.
you barely know the guy and heâs already being cautious of all others near you, stating that he needs to protect you, that youâre practically treasure.
heâs extremely gentlemanly, itâs not hard to tell heâs taken an interest in you.
he offers you his jacket, he defends you in all situations, he escorts you home, heâs just the perfect boyfriend and you arenât even dating.
you almost feel like youâre taking advantage of him, even though you didnât ask him to do any of this.
finally you actually decide to bring it up with him.
he seems surprised that it was on your mind this much, but he gladly and openly admits that heâs fallen in love with you.
youâre honestly pretty taken aback hearing that!
but youâre not going to lie, youâve definitely developed feelings for him.
itâs like a story out of a fairy tale, the way he treats you, the way your relationship functions.
you almost canât believe how smoothly everything goes.
you wake up every morning treated like a princess, complimented and protected every second of your day.
itâs really nice to have somebody care this much for you, honestly...
and you really do love him, itâs not just the constant pampering talking.
could a relationship really be this perfect? do fairy tales come true?Â
maybe.
Tsundere
god, he is just IMPOSSIBLE sometimes.
every time you think youâve gotten close to him, heâs acting up again!
one moment heâs cuddled up to you, and the next heâs shoving you away demanding that you not touch him! youâre completely lost on what he wants, you have no idea how he feels about you!
heâll blush, heâll stammer, but heâll still end each statement by reminding you that youâre stupid and he hates you.
itâs really frustrating!
youâve asked him out before, and he shot you down so bluntly you would have thought he was a stranger!
you really canât tell if heâs interested, but with the way he acts, youâre starting to seriously doubt it.
but then again, thereâs the moments when he blushes, the moments when he does nice things for you, when you think there might still be a chance.
just to be shot down again.
finally, youâve had enough of the frustration, youâre sick of it.
you demand that he just tells it to you straight!
he seems shocked, but flusters right away, and thatâs all the proof you need.
you kiss him, and he doesnât resist.Â
if anything, he kisses you back just as passionately.
he starts opening up from then, sweetening with time, losing his hostility as you two grow closer.
eventually you think itâs pretty safe to say youâre a couple.
honestly, youâre happy.
you really do love him.
Yandere
this oneâs been done, right here!










