hey, saying this as gently as I can. if you made a blog with the purpose of documenting black people abusing non-black people, that would obviously be racist. if you made a blog documenting neurodivergent people abusing neurotypical people, that would obviously be ableism. if you say "hey, you know that bigoted stereotype that this group commits this type of violence at a disproportionate rate? I want to document that" then you are going to come off as endorsing that bigoted stereotype as true. please consider why making a blog that documents abusive transfems hurting non-transfems is going to be harmful, and enforce negative ideas about a group that is already demonised so heavily. I know you've said a couple of times now that you started this blog because you are dealing with a lot of trauma. trauma is a shitty thing to deal with and I'm sorry you're going through that. but trauma responses are not always logical, helpful or unable to cause hurt. you should consider that in placing the focus of this blog on the harm transfems cause, as opposed to supporting people, you're not lifting up an unheard voice or taking care of people. what you're implying is that transfems are dangerous and get away with being a threat to others too easily, both of which are word-for-word terf rhetoric and demonstrably not true. take care of yourself, but please don't act like lashing out at transfems is a real way to support anybody, it's just perpetuating and excusing the existing transmisogyny that we already face.
You want to talk about stereotypes? Let’s talk about the one that says TMEs are fragile, confused, and prone to "lashing out" whenever we aren't being perfectly palatable. That is the stereotype you are enforcing right now!
