#hermit mode

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I've been loving staying in lately. I've been on 'Hermit' mode since August, and I’ve stopped going out on weekends—actually, I’ve stopped socializing altogether. The last time I went out, I realized it didn’t feel good anymore. For me, it felt like I was wasting my energy on people and activities that didn’t benefit me in the present and certainly won’t help with what I want for my future.

I’m turning 29 this year! In fact, it’s on the 28th of this month. Gosh, I feel like I’m getting so old, but in truth, I know I’m just getting started with my life. I keep telling myself I don’t want to make the wrong decisions when it comes to picking a partner, a career, a new place, or even an investment plan. I don’t know! It’s all so terrifying. I worry about getting it wrong; every other week, I find myself in an identity crisis. Hahaha! To be honest, I blame the misogynistic societal standards of yesterday for why I even question myself and my path—even when I’m sure I’m on the right one! Sigh… A positive note on this, it’s clear that the world IS evolving, and thank goodness for Gen Zs for being a woke generation and starting revolutions. Anyway, I apologize for straying from the point; I tend to ramble.

Yes, I’m currently in my Saturn Return, and goodness, my world is turning upside down, and weirdly, not in a bad way. It only looks bad because it’s starting to feel different. Truly, I can’t wait to emerge from the "Saturn Return" tunnel. In some ways, I feel good about the changes happening within me. I notice my mind becoming quieter, less obstinate, and more observant.

If you’re not familiar, the Saturn Return is an astrological transit that occurs when Saturn returns to the sign you were born under. Saturn is a slow-moving planet—imagine your grandmother walking with a cane (I’m picturing mine); yes, that slow. That’s why Saturn is the planet of karma, limitations, and discipline, with a transit lasting around 29 years. We usually learn our hard-earned lessons around this age. So yes, she’s coming back in Aquarius for me when I turn 29. What more lessons am I going to learn????????????? No idea. It's a big mystery. How beautiful. How horrifying. How mind-boggling.

You know, most women get married during their Saturn Return. It’s during this transit that big changes occur in a woman's life. It’s crazy how accurate astrology can be sometimes. My older sister got engaged during her Saturn Return in 2021, and my mom might get married during her second Saturn Return in her late 50s. But Saturn isn’t just about relationship transitions; it’s mostly about looking at life from a different perspective. It affects all aspects of life, depending on where your focus is. For me, I’ve been focusing solely on my career and self-worth. I’ve put up boundaries. I’ve been taking good care of myself lately; my physical and spiritual health are my top priorities. I want to think of this 'Hermit' mode as a time for recharging, recalibrating, and redirecting my energy aligning with Saturn’s upcoming rounds. It seems the Universe is supporting me in this, as I haven’t had any difficulty saying "no" to invites lately. Hihihi. At this point, I’m relying on my intuition and my body’s energy to guide my decisions.

To be honest, one reason I stopped going out is that I want to start spending my time, energy and attention wisely and that means I either spend time with myself, studying, meditating and whatnot or with people who matches my current evolution—my openness, my acceptance, my non-judgmental approach to life, my weirdness, and my ability to keep quiet about things that don't matter. I’m noticing that I’m becoming someone who doesn’t value my history with people as much anymore, I only value what their recent and current actions show me. I long for people I can trust—who are holding themselves responsible as well—evolving, who don’t think so highly of themselves—people who celebrate others' wins and don’t compare themselves to others. By stepping away from the wrong people, I feel like I’ve begun this beautiful journey toward finding my true tribe. Fingers crossed!

Now that I’m fully aware and present in my life, I choose to create my world. I’m making my choices wisely. I’ve got the power, after all. This is my life. And my choice today is being a damn hermit. For now. (Me, in my Saturn Return, ruthless.)

Shaina Tranquilino

January 17, 2024

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the constant hustle and bustle of modern life? Do social interactions drain your energy, leaving you longing for solitude? If so, then you might be familiar with the concept of hermit mode.

Hermit mode is a term that has gained popularity in recent years to describe a state of voluntary seclusion from society. It's not about being anti-social or avoiding people altogether; it's more about taking time for yourself and prioritizing self-care.

In today's fast-paced world, where we are constantly bombarded with information and expected to always be available, hermit mode offers a much-needed break. It allows us to recharge our batteries, reflect on our lives, and reconnect with ourselves.

During hermit mode, we intentionally disconnect from social media, limit our interactions with others, and focus on activities that bring us joy and fulfillment. This could include reading books, practicing meditation or yoga, pursuing hobbies or passions that have taken a backseat due to our busy schedules.

One of the key benefits of hermit mode is increased self-awareness. By spending time alone without distractions, we can delve deep into our thoughts and emotions. We gain clarity about what truly matters to us and identify areas in our lives that need attention or improvement. This introspection can lead to personal growth and a better understanding of ourselves.

Moreover, hermit mode provides an opportunity for rest and relaxation. Our minds and bodies need downtime to function optimally. In the solitude of hermit mode, we can sleep longer hours if needed, take naps throughout the day when we feel tired, or simply enjoy moments of stillness and silence. These periods of rest help reduce stress levels and promote overall well-being.

Another advantage of hermit mode is the freedom it brings from external expectations. When we retreat from society temporarily, we release ourselves from societal pressures and the need to conform. Instead of worrying about fitting in or meeting societal norms, we can focus on our own desires and aspirations. This newfound freedom allows us to explore our creativity, try new things, and follow paths that truly resonate with us.

However, it's important to note that hermit mode should not be confused with isolation or social withdrawal due to mental health issues. While solitude can be beneficial for everyone, those struggling with anxiety or depression may require professional support. It's crucial to seek help if you find yourself unable to engage in healthy social interactions or experience persistent feelings of loneliness.