#helpmeguys

In the new book I am planning, I want to be as inclusive as I can possibly be. Therefore, I want to include some disability representation. 

Hello everybody! I know this won't reach many people but I just have to write it down to get it off my mind.

And also the following is not insulting anyone so don't take it personal or so.

So I don't know what it is that so many queer girls fall for straight girls. And when I'm looking back there have been a lot of straight girls I had a crush on. I have to say I live in a small town and there aren't many queer girls living here so I kinda don't have a chance to meet one. Not long ago I felt for a girl, who gave me all the signs of flirting and I thought this time it could be real. But I found out that she has a boyfriend. So why did she do that? And she wasn't the first one doing this but what's the thing behind it? Like do straight girls know that they're playing with our feelings? That they actually hurt us with that? And again, I'm not saying, that all of the straight girls out there are like this!!

So it took a long time for me to get over this one and now I'm finally at a point where it doesn't matter to me anymore. But if I'm being honest, I'm probably starting it all again, cause I'm falling for a girl and she's probably straight too. We work at the same place and we had our first talk a few days ago. She told me a lot about her private life and it was just easy to talk to her. So the real problem is, another colleague told me, that she has a boyfriend. To me she said nothing about it even though I indirectly asked her about it. I'm not seeing her this week but all I can do is thinking about her and it's stressing me the fuck out! She's always smiling at me, already looking at me when I look at her and she turns around just to give me a smile too so what is that?

So if someone out there is in the same situation or have been there, please tell me what you did or how it turned out!

Any advice is helping me right now!

I’m on a discord server and a person mentioned that they write genderbends because it’s easier for them to write a female character. It wasn’t well received. They were told that making a genderbend of a character is transphobic and they were eventually banned from that server.

I want to ask the opinion of whoever sees this post because while I personally have nothing against genderbends, the argument has me confused over what I should believe because trans people on that server said that making a genderbend of a character made them feel uncomfortable.