#hawick

'Always to the fore!'

4 January 2026

Yang Mi and Hawick ended not so amicably, like most divorces. Yang Mi and Hawick had very different outlooks on life. Yang Mi was more authoritative while Hawick was more laidback. They also shared very different ideas about managing money, so they clashed there. Moreover, they did not share the same view on parenting. Yang Mi is more traditional as a parent and strict, even though she may not feel she is or portray it in public. She is not as affectionate physically to the child as the father. She is more tough love and this is probably why many people say she neglects the daughter in a way. 

Yang Mi prioritizes herself and her career and relationships over her daughter. Yang Mi sometimes sees her daughter as a setback to her future relationships in a way. Yang Mi thoroughly regrets marrying Hawick. He was, in her eyes, verbally abusive to her and he often lied to her. He was not faithful a few years into their marriage and hurt her a lot emotionally. He claimed she was not showing enough affection and not as sweet as before. She felt he was not keeping his promises and was not eagerly taking on opportunities he should have been. Both of them, at the end of their marriage, already had different partners in mind. Yang Mi also felt like she lost a lot of career opportunities due to Hawick. He controlled the roles she was able to take and indirectly directed her to reject some she might have wanted.