#hate less

Every interaction we have with another person has an impact on their journey.

Every. Single. One.

Imagine the world we could create if we left human beings better than we found them...

Live authentically.

~beccawise7 💜🖤

Some people really need to get a life and hate less...

My first ever meme of the Care Bears.... 2021 was meant to be a promising new year, but instead it was met with tougher lockdowns, the recent mass terror attacks on the US capitol, goons, mobs, hooligans and others being brainwashed by false info on each approved covid vaccine...💔💔💔

I am married to a light skin black man. I have children with that same man and I love my family.

Racism wasn’t something I was familiar with growing up I think because I’m white. I never encountered it and wasn’t apart of how damaging it can be, until I met Jordan. I met my husband when I was 18 and he was 21, he is my brothers best friend and have been for many years. I met him when I decided I wanted to live with my dad and brother in LA. Immediately I was drawn to him; because damn😍👅 ... we became close/flirty friends. Everything we did with each other it was in a flirty way and it was only a year later that we got pregnant with our first child Makaylyn or Kay. Nearly six months after her birth we got married and shortly after that we got pregnant again — I’m currently pregnant now with our second daughter, Camry.

Now out of all this time, me personally I still wasn’t aware of how badly racism was. Sure we’ve had our share of hateful comments about our family and mean looks but nothing as bad as what we encountered the other night.

We went out as a family, thought it would be nice to have a family date night and all went smoothly till around 6 o’clock. It was getting late, our daughter was getting sleepy, my feet and back were starting to hurt — it was just time to go home. Well on our way out of the restaurant we bumped into these smelling like to much alcohol probably to drunk to even function group of four white men. Now as we was walking our they had made a comment sexual comment about my appearance — my ass — I was going to say something but Jordan told me to just let it ... here’s were things got out of hand because as Jordan was telling me to let it go the men behind had pitched their voices higher.

“What’s a fine as fuck white girl like her doing with the nigger?”

“She’s got a nice set of tits on her, why is she letting that nigger touch them?”

I can go on with more of what they said but I think you get the flow. Jordan wasn’t going to give into them and I had my child with me so as much as I wanted to say something I wasn’t going to but as we was walking past them one of them ass holes had grouped my ass. Now this was were Jordan lost it. The moment I screamed dont touch me it was mere seconds later that Jordan was shoving me behind him and his anger was flaring. He proceeded to say in a calm and collected tone “don’t touch my wife. Let us leave.”

The men started laughing and really just trying to envolk a fight. Things got really heated, words being thrown around and anger between everyone was flying around. My daughter was starting to get scared/agitated and I’m pregnant I don’t need the added stress. I grab Jordan’s arm and try to pull him away and get him to just leave them he their racist taunts were nothing, we needed to ignore them. But as I stepped in front of Jordan the man had grabbed my ass and said “I’m white and she’s white, she don’t belong with no nigger.”

Let’s get something straight... just because I am white and you’re white DOESNT ENTITLE ME TO YOU..

Jordan lost his control ... he went at the guy and Guy was gonna go at him but I got in between them and Jordan wasn’t about to hurt me. So eventually we made it to the car and got home safely

But the whole point of this story is Racism is still here. Even in biracial relationships we still race the racism and the hate. I have two kids that are growing up in this world and it needs to get better. I don’t want to have to be afraid for my kids over this, I want to be able to feel safe to send my children to school knowing that each and every other child there will love and respect my kids. My children might be half white and I know a lot of people might think that will make everything better but it doesn’t. It doesn’t make things easier for them they will still be faced the racism because they are black, half back maybe but they are still black.