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☰ Madara

■ Is not very worried or concerned about you because he figures if you’ve been blind your whole life, or for a good amount of time you are use to it now. And he sees no reason to baby you over it now and kind of assumes it would be almost insulting to you if he assumed you couldn’t take care of yourself.

■ This doesn’t mean he’s completely careless about the matter though because he does worry about you, though he does not like to let it show. But he will show concern if he sees you having trouble or struggling with something. Though he won’t ask you if you need help he’ll just start helping you.

■ Develops a habit of tugging on your clothes the back of your shirt or your sleeve, especially when the two of you are in public places but even at home too. He does this to direct you to him or grab your attention, he will hold your hand but he is much more hesitant and reluctant to hold your hand in front of others.

■ Will really like making you smile and making you happy, therefore he becomes very interested in what your interests, hobbies, goals and dreams are. If you collect something he will spoil you a bit by giving you gifts of what you collect occasionally. He will also be very supportive of your dreams or goals in in life and will even be a little pushy about helping you achieve them.

☰ Hashirama

■ Very over protective of you early on in the relationship and very watchful over you, always offering to help you with whatever you are doing, though he’ll get use to the fact that you can do things on your own despite being blind he’ll slowly ease up. Though he will still be very helpful towards you but in general he doesn’t really treat you any differently than anyone else.

■ He is very supportive towards you and everything you want to do, which can make him very defensive if anyone tells you that you can not do something because you are blind. He believes in you and thinks you can do anything you put your mind to and will gladly help and support you with any of your dreams or goals.

■ Overly affectionate and touchy with you he likes holding your hand when he’s around you, he has a habit of hugging you often. He also often touches your hand, arm, shoulder or pats your head. He’ll kiss your forehead or hand especially before leaving you for any reason if he was going on a mission or leaving the house or even before bed.

☰ Hashirama

■ Initially shocked and speechless for a few moments but absolutely thrilled and excited about the news, He will be really happy about it and it will be hard for him not to tell everyone, so it could be hard for you to make him keep it a secret if you don’t want to tell anyone for a while.

■ Really doesn’t have any negative feelings or thoughts about you being pregnant either, he’s completely positive and optimistic about it. Happy about having a child with you and really looking forward to being a father, so he won’t even seem a little bit hesitant or worried.

■ Immediately wrapped up in wanting to prepare for the baby and getting things ready for the baby, talking about baby names and preparing a nursery and stocking up on supplies, toys, clothes and everything the two of you will need for the baby. He won’t ever seem worried or unprepared for the baby.

☰ Madara

■ It’ll be difficult to tell whether he is happy or upset about the news because he will be surprised to hear the news, but he won’t really show a clear sign of being happy or bothered by it keep a more neutral expression and not saying much right away either.

■ Is happy about the news but doesn’t really show it much until later on in the pregnancy, almost acting as though he’s worried or nervous about something happening. But he doesn’t act upset about it and isn’t overly negative about it either he just needs time to really process the news.

■ While he does seem worried about it at first after a few days of thinking it over he’ll slowly come around and show more subtle enthusiasm or interest in being a parent, he’ll also become much more protective over you especially the further along you get.

☰ Tobirama

■ Happy about the news but is rather mild in his way of showing it, because while he will be happy to be having a baby with you he will also be nervous about it. Worrying about being a father and all the responsibilities that comes along with being a parent.

■ However he keeps these worries to himself not wanting to make you worry about the same things or make you worry about him. So, he’ll act more optimistic about the situation than he really is, especially if you seem nervous about having a baby at all.

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☰ Hashirama

■ Quite supportiveover it and acts completely happy with the idea, after all he will feel like asuccessful relationship between you and Madara could help ease tension betweenthe clans and help to bring peace so it’s hard for him to see any negatives tothe two of you dating.

■ However, ifthe two of you begin dating after it’s become quite clear that there won’t bepeace between the clans and Madara has already settled in on fightingHashirama, then it’s a different story because he will not want to feel like he’sfighting against you as well and especially won’t want to actually fight youone day because of what Madara’s doing.

■ But as longas the relationship doesn’t cause any major issues or problems and Madara stayson friendly terms with Hashirama he will be supportive and happy about it.Especially if it seems like you could put Madara on a different path ratherthan him seeking out revenge and wanting to start a war.

■ Hashiramawill see the relationship as a relationship between his best friend and sisterand as long as you both are happy he’s eager to encourage the relationship,though he will stay protective over you as his sister while he’ll defend therelationship he’ll also be honest if he thinks it’s a bad idea depending on thetime frame that the two of you begin a relationship.

☰ Tobirama

■ Doesn’tmatter when you begin dating Madara he is 100% against the idea and quite angryover the idea from the very start, and refuses to accept the relationship andwill be very persistent about you ending the relationship and angry that youwould even consider dating Madara.

■ He is adamantabout ending the relationship and will continuously show his disapproval and willeven get angry at Hashirama for accepting and supporting the relationship.Which will make him yell and argue with not only you about it but withHashirama as well.

■ Tobirama willbe extremely hostile towards Madara and will constantly stir up arguments oreven physical confrontations any time he’s around you and Madara, and your onlysaving grace to protect you will be Hashirama defending you and the relationshipand will step in to stop Tobirama though he is not always effective in doingso.

☰ Tobirama

■ Someone who is on the spontaneous side and can push him to doing new things, even if he doesn’t want to. Because he will feel obligated to go along with his S/O if they are going to do something on a whim.

■ Someone who will point out his rude or grouchy behavior or attitude at times. Especially when he is being overly harsh or rude towards someone. and who won’t crumble against him if he gets snippy towards them as a result. Not that they argue with him but more so point out that he shouldn’t say this or that, or be so hard on this person or that person.

■ A general happy, easy going and funny personality, that makes jokes and can make light of situations or joke around. Because a general humorous and happy S/O will put him at ease and even cheer him up at times.

■ Calming someone who can calm a situation or conflict instead of fueling it, because when he does lose his temper he can go all out. And it’s better if you do not leap into the argument to also argue or defend anything. He needs someone that can ease the situation and not only stop an argument and defuse it but also calm him down afterwards.

■ An adventurous and outgoing S/O who likes to stay busy, try new things. Who can also push or instigate him to try new things with them. Someone who can inspire him to have some fun or at least relax from time to time.

■ Someone who doesn’t agree with everything he says, while he would prefer that. He needs someone that can challenge his ideas or thoughts, as well as someone who will fight for what they believe in. For he has a much harder time believing he’s right.

☰ Hashirama

■ Validating and encouraging towards him, attentive and affectionate for he feels needed and wanted. Because he can get lonely and depressed rather easily and will need to feel needed to some degree.

■ Organization, planning and able to set dates or plans and keep him to a schedule. He can get over excited about ideas and his own thoughts and doesn’t always think about planning things out, and would greatly benefit from a S/O who can make plans for dates and outings as well as any other events in his life.

■ More controlling and dominant than he is and able to easily control a situation, Because he can be unrealistic and has a tendency to be a bit spontaneous at times, and will need someone who can keep him and check.

■ Able to easily understand his point of view and others, and be able to sympathize with him over things, without him needing to explain it to you. He clicks very well with someone who can immediately understand something he’s feeling or going through.

■ Capable of taking care of him in more of a house wife way, because he’s not particularly greatly skilled or knowledgeable when it comes to household tasks. And can also get carried away with other things at times and may not get enough sleep or eat enough when he’s busy.

☰ Hashirama

■ Hashirama does not show much anger over finding out about your parents being abusive, instead he actually manages to stay rather calm and collected over the situation. Mainly because he doesn’t want to lose his temper over it and accidentally upset you, of course he is not okay with it but he takes a rather mild approach to the situation taking time to think about it before suggesting a solution.

■ Depending on what your parents are like and what your opinion is, he may try to talk to your parents about it. And try to resolve things in a peaceful nature because he would much rather see you and your parents able to resolve things and put things in the past and move on rather than have to see you cut ties with them. However he will not force you to try if it’s obvious that your parents will not put in the effort to repair the relationship.

■ If he feels like the relationship between you and your parents can not be repaired, he’ll feel that it’s better than you stay away from them. Feeling as though you do not deserve to be abused in any way, as well as you not needing the negativity or stress in your life. If you are still living with your parents he’ll gladly move you in with him though he doesn’t really even ask he’ll simply move you in with him before you really realize what is going on.

■ Hashirama will not bring it up much or talk about the abuse unless you bring it up, if you want to talk about it he’s all for it. But he will not push you to talk about it, because he won’t want to feel like he’s pushing you or reopening a wound. He also won’t like the idea of you visiting your parents, but he won’t stop you however he’ll insist you don’t go alone. Either having him or a friend go with you for you are not stuck with your parents alone.

■ It doesn’t matter what kind of abuse it was he’ll view them all as rather equally, though he has a tendency to particularly dislike emotional or mental abuse because it can really impact your own opinion of yourself as well as your self esteem and self confidence and sees it as harder to recover from.

■ He is very supportive though and will try hard to undo any damage your parents might of done to you. Even suggesting therapy or so if he feels like it could help, because he won’t want to feel like what happened to you is something that will continue to haunt you even if your away from your parents. He’ll want to help you get over it all as much as possible.

☰ Tobirama

■ Incredibly quick to lose his temper when he finds out about the abuse, no matter what kind of abuse it is he’ll react the same. But his reaction can be particularly worse if it’s physical abuse at any time and he notices a mark or bruise on you at all. He will not even give you a choice about what happens now if you’re still living with your parents you won’t be anymore. As well as being completely opposed to his S/O even being around their parents anymore.

■ If you so much as talk about seeing your parents or visiting them, he can become quite agitated and pissed off in general over the mere idea of it. He will not let you see your parents of visit them alone and will insist on going with you, if you are going to be around your parents. Which can also be a disaster because he’ll make no attempts at all to get along with your parents, and can even intentionally be rude or cold towards them. 

■ Because of the abuse he is often times very overly protective of you and very quick to defend you. Not just from your parents either but from anyone that he feels may be trying to be mean/rude/sarcastic towards you. He does not tolerate any criticism towards you at all even if it’s in a teasing way from friends, he can become quite hostile and snippy over it.

■ It also makes him dislike being apart from you especially for long periods of time, and will not really care for you to go places alone. Preferring for him to be with you, though at times when he can’t be he’ll like for friends to be with you in his absence. Especially if he is away from the village he’ll even have his brother keep an eye on you if he feels it’s needed.

■ He doesn’t particularly like talking about the abuse or what you went through because it can easily piss him off all over again. However he can keep a cool head and remain calm if he feels like you talking about it can or will help you in some way, and he’s very open to helping you get through it in any way that he can.