(no confirmation on if anything actually happend in 1970s between him and Daniel...besides a TOTALLY PROFESSIONAL interview, but at least there was some flirtation in that San Francisco gay bar.)

(I dunno about this one, simply savory inferior maybe?)

It’s like:

I want to share a story to help you dear friend.

Because these were real people on Tumblr, I will glaze over their identity

When I was around 23/24 I was a college graduate, not thinking about medical school , but very much wanted a DADDY

Tbc ; that was all I have every wanted

I meet the perfect daddy on Tumblr. He was a real daddy, around 40’s ? I have ALWAYS loved older men , and he was just EVERYTHING

Unfortunately he had a partner . She was bi , my age , and wanted me to “join them”

I on the other hand had plans of pushing her out . I just wanted HIM not her , but they were poly but I am not lesbian or bi

It got very ugly, bc I do not share ❌,

and I could not bend my boundaries for him , even though he said he would just see us separately , so it did not work out

The point is after that I decided to ONLY date men irl . I danced a little bit and in a trauma group met my daddy ❤️

He was the best and older and understood what a daddy was suppose to be . It broke my heart when he dumped me , but I was almost finished with med school , a little older , and realized that men would come and go , but I had myself 💪🏾

I whined on Tumblr a lot , had a couple of failed relationships, but the relationship with MYSELF grew stronger

Once I finished med school my self esteem was extremely elevated , however

I did NOT start out like that

Men should make you feel good about yourself, never anxious

If that should happen , he is a BAD choice

I never thought I would be married . That was never a goal for me , bc I had developed a good relationship with myself

Right now you are young and do not know what you do not know

I would suggest working on things that elevate YOU , like finishing school and working on your beauty routine