#happyhut

i dont like speaking generally but i do believe there can be a situation where someone is aware of the abusive relationship and doesnt try to stop it because they gain some sort of pleasure from it. but i think it would only be self destructive if its the abuse specifically that the person enjoys (i know not technically “enjoys” but maybe feels like they deserve it in some way). if the person likes the companionship but the partner happens to be abusive, thats just being conflicted and in a horrible place but i do believe its possible. i hope you are doing okay and if you need any more help i can try my best!!!

i dated a boy in 7th grade and its been 4 years and im still not completely over it. relationships that mean a lot will impact you for a long time. it was important to u and its completely normal for u to still be thinking about it a year later. personally, im super sensitive. and even people i broke up with, i still think about constantly and i miss them and want them back. usually the answer is to not go back to the ex. ik it feels right but i promise it isnt fate. its just emotions. and thats okay! you will eventually come to peace with ur feelings that might never go away. i know how u feel and i know u can be strong and continue on with ur wonderful life!!! you can message me with more anytime you need. good luck!!!!!

THIS MEANS THE WORLD TO ME THANK YOU SO MUCH IDK WHO YOU ARE BUT YOU DESERVE SO MUCH HAPPINESS FOR DOING THIS THANK YOU

u dont know how much this means to me i just calmed down a whole lot thank you so sos os so much for this kind message its so hard to remind myself about these things when im like this and this helped sososososo much. youre right i will get better and i am strong enough thank you so much you made my night <3 

ohmyhod i love this so much thank you i need one of these hugs