i thinkk ur prolly supposed to wear people out while taking care of them. if you love them. like a good jacket you actually mend and clean and take proper care of to make it last as long as possible. if they mean a lot to you then you're supposed to use people, which is why it's not rude to ask for help, cuz ppl wanna be helpful and useful to each other. this leads into some of the burial practices like making bags and shoes out loved ones skin, jewelry & weapons & brushes & combs out of their teeth & bones & hair and all that. you lovingly use and take care of them in life and you loving use and take care of them in death













