Girlfags and Guydykes are people who fetishise homosexual men and women. They are perverts trying to latch onto their kinks and think of it as normal.

Well it's the first time on tumblr for over twelve hours and it seems I have stumbled upon a thing called "girlfags" and "guydykes". If you say that you are a gay male within a female body, or a lesbian female within a male body, that is perfectly fine. More power to you my friend. However, attacking homosexuals for not including you as a viable partner because your sex doesn't fit within their label, (not your gender, your sex, your biological genitalia that you were born with) is incredibly rude. Homosexuality is a sexuality where someone is either attracted to the same sex, or the same gender. More times than not both. YES, it is still possible for you to obtain a partner of a homosexual nature if you are transgender. However, if they also require you to have the same sex as them, then it is too bad. Do NOT blame them for their own preferences. Now, I don't mean to be rude, but fetishizing someone of any specific sexuality (cue in 'stereotypical' straight guy loving lesbian action) isn't going to come across as particularly popular. Especially if they're an oppressed minority that can't help but conform to their sexuality to find a sense of self and safety within a community. If you at any point of time refuse to be with someone because they are not specifically homosexual (such as a bisexual or pansexual) then you are fetishizing that sexuality. Do not get me wrong, I'm not saying this is what you are doing. However, this is how people are taking this and you must try to educate them on how they are wrong. (also, cishomosexuals, instead of trying to outright say that they are fetishizing homosexuality IF you manage to fit into the category of "I am biologically and self identified as this one gender but am only interested in homosexuals" PLEASE get this through your head. Homosexuals will not be interested in you. What so ever. You are not in the same ANYTHING to them. DO NOT BLAME THEM FOR THAT. It is the equivalent to a homosexual crushing on a heterosexual and blamingthem, in a negative way, for the feelings they grew themselves for that person. Then claiming they're just being shallow and small minded for not opening up their heart to the opportunity. THAT WOULD MEAN TRYING TO MAKE THEM FEEL GUILTY FOR NOT CHANGING WHO THEY ARE. STOP THAT. ANYBODY. BAD. ON THE FLIP SIDE Dear all trans/cis homosexuals! If you do end up in a heated debate with one another, please have an open mind. Do not shut another person down. If someone is being belligerent, do not engage. If you do, or they engage you, try to calmly educate them about yourselves and what you know about the topic. Then try learning from one another. Turn that argument into an educated discussion. Also, never ever question a person about what they identify as. This means, if someone says they are trans, believe them. It is rude to need proof. Nobody needs to prove anything to anybody! I see tumblr as family; a safe haven for people to discuss their ideas and themselves. I would like it to stay that way.