âIndeed, sir, itâs hard to believe you would be true to me when you left this other lady who is more beautiful and noble than I. Itâs good for me that youâve told me all this, because if I had not known the truth, I would have been quick to grant you my love, which would have been foolish, because no sooner will you have your way with me than youâll leave me as you did her. Iâd have been cruelly deceived.â
âAll your protestations are worthless,â said Guerrehet. âYou must do what I want, because weâre all alone and far from people.â
âWhat?â she said, âwould you force yourself on me?â
âNo,â he replied, âbut I beg you to give in gracefully.â
âAnd if I agree, what would happen?â
âIâd make love to you,â he said.
âAnd if I didnât agree?â
âThen I wouldnât make love to you,â said Guerrehet.
âSo,â she asked, âIt all depends on what I want?â
âWhat youâve said is true,â he answered.
âNow tell me,â she continued, âis there any woman in this world whom you could love, if you thought she hated and despised you?â
âNone, I assure you.â
âAnd would you want to consort with her as a man with woman, out of some lust for beauty, so long as she hated you?â
"So help me God, no,â he replied. âI could never love her at all as long as she hated me.â
âThen I swear to you,â she said, âthat you will not love me, because I hate and despise you for having been unfaithful in love to her who loved you more than herself. And everyone who hears of it will esteem you less for it, as soon as they learn that you make it a habit to deceive the ladies and maidens of foreign lands. I know just as you sought my love now, youâll seek another womanâs tomorrow, if you find one, and indeed I donât know any worse treason than to deceive a woman with sweet talk, for she is easily conquered. It seems to me that in behaving in this way you are pursuing shame more than honor.â
â from Lancelot Part V, chapter 142, William W. Kibler translation