Liking G/T isnât some taboo, insane, creepy thing!!! Itâs literally like any other trope/fandom! Dragons? Furry community? Literally any trope in media? Pretty much the same as g/t. Itâs not weird!!!
Iâm also saying this partially for myselfâŚas somebody who has been ashamed and uncomfortable with this special interest for most of my life. I tried shoving it down, bottling it up, bullying myself out of liking it- but it didnât work.
To make matters worse, I made the mistake of telling my old friend group about my interest in gt, and they made fun of me despite my expression of discomfort. (Teasing was a very important element in our group, and is still very influential to my humor- but I made it clear that this was not something I felt comfortable with being teased.) they constantly were poking at my insecurities that it might be perceived as sexual. WhichâŚfor me, no. Itâs truly the OPPOSITE, Itâs my main comfort tool.
But now, Iâm out of that friend group. And have a lovely boyfriend who is fully supportive of it.
âŚhe did accidentally stumble upon THAT side of the community when searching it, which I feared, but immediately understood that I was not apart of that. To my surprise lmfao. Guess that any kind of listening from anybody is fucking earth shattering to me after being in a 9-year long friend group that ignored and shamed me đ
But he goes above and beyond, assuring me that it isnât weird, and listening to my worries about it. Being so empathetic and sweet.
He tells me about gt fluff situations he thinks about, asks me questions about gt, and is even going draw us as gt.
LIKE WDYM THIS MAN WAS JUST RANDOMLY LIKE
âItâd be cute if you could doodle on my nails.â Or âman I wish you could just put you in my hoodie pocket and Iâd have likeâŚan emotional support tiny throughout my day.â
LIKE WHAT YES YOU MATCH THE FREAK
he doesnât fully get it, but thatâs okay. Because he understands to an extent why I enjoy it, and just cares about my interests.
Anyways. Itâs like 1am. I just wanted to fawn over my partner and remind the community that you arenât a weird, terrible person for liking g/t. So if the people youâre âcloseâ to make you ashamed of such a silly thing, theyâre not right for you. And probably donât have your best interest in mind- because it truthfully is not supposed to be that insane of a deal. There are people out there who will love you, and you deserve it! Trust me!
I sometimes still feel lonely, and even more so when i remember that out of everything my neurodivergent ass brain decided to cling onto âheh. Big small.â As a FUNDAMENTAL PART OF MY MIND. But, that just makes me a little weird and unique! as corny as that soundsâŚbut thatâs okay.
Iâm just rambling atp. Thanks for reading my late night rant, and if youâre somebody in the g/t community who is insecure about it, I see you. Youâre not alone, and you WILL find people who accept you for who you are. I know I do. <3