Gives nose/forehead kisses: Grayson. Mostly because Eleanorâs forehead is just right there, partly because she canât quite hide the smile when she bitches at him for doing it.Â
Gets jealous the most: Eleanor. She knows it borders on irrational and does her best to avoid showing it, but she canât help but be insecure.
Picks the other up from the bar when theyâre too drunk to drive: Either would if the other bothered to call, but more often than not they donât. Thereâs a fair amount of Eleanor wandering in at odd hoursâslightly drunk and with french fries.
Takes care of on sick days: Grayson. Initially Eleanor hates it and feels like sheâs being smothered. As she gets more comfortable with the fact that heâs not going anywhere, she gives in and lets him baby her.
Drags the other person out into the water on beach day: Both. It depends on the day but both of them are equally capable of getting the other in the water. Eleanor tends to rely more on begging, Grayson just goes with brute strength.
Gives unprompted massages: Eleanor. Sheâs terrible at sitting still, so giving Grayson a massage is a way to satisfy her need to fidget without making a mess.
Drives/rides shotgun: Neither, really. Thereâs not a ton of driving to be done in Northpoint.
Brings the other lunch at work: Eleanor. Unless Eleanor happens to still be awake when Grayson leaves for work, lunch is the earliest that sheâd manage to see him. When she can, sheâll bring him lunch just so that she can go say hello. Sometimes itâs less lunch and more random items from the fridge in a bag.
Has the better parental relationship: Neither. Grayson does at least have some understanding of what a family looks like, where itâs more of an abstract concept for Eleanor.
Tries to start role-playing in bed: Both. At one point or another theyâve both drunkenly tried to initiate it, only to dissolve into fits of laughter and promise to never, ever do that again.
Embarrassingly drunk dancer: Grayson. Eleanor isnât sure how itâs possible for someone to be quite that bad, but he is. Too many drinks and all of a sudden itâs like sheâs watching a collection of oversized limbs that refuse to move with any sort of synchronicity.
Still cries watching Titanic: Eleanor. Sheâs not sure why, either, because itâs never at any of the appropriate emotional points.
Firmly believes in couples costumes: Neither/both. They both complain about how ridiculous and cheesy coupleâs costumes are, but if one of them came up with something that was clever enough that no one else would get it then theyâd both be overwhelmingly into it.
Breaks the expensive gift rule during Christmas: Grayson. No matter how much he tries to deny that heâs done it, Eleanor always knows and refuses to give him his gift until sheâs been able to go get him a new gift. Usually that new gift is what she wanted to get him in the first place but didnât because it was out of their agreed upon budget.
Makes the other eat breakfast: Grayson. Mostly Grayson just makes sure that Eleanor eats because she gets so caught up in doing everything at the last minute that sheâll sometimes end up going for days at a time on potato chips, bites of other peopleâs food, and booze.
Remembers anniversaries: Eleanor. Not that Grayson doesnât, but rather that Eleanor remembers a bunch of really stupid, ridiculous anniversaries. She doesnât expect him to remember them or for them to celebrate these things, theyâre just things that are stuck in her brain.
Brings up having kids: Both. The topic gets brought up as an accident, a slip of the tongue that indicates that the idea isnât completely out of the question but doesnât get discussed any further than that.