What is in my reflection? Who am I looking at? Do I really know her? As I stand bare ass, chubby belly, hair wet, titties out, looking at myself eye-to-eye, I can’t help and ask myself, “who are you?” There has been times when I have questioned my own identity, my parenting ability and if I was really able to love. Love who, you ask? Myself. I’ve spent, sometimes, hours staring into my own soul looking for something that we have in common. Who am I? I no longer represent the beautiful image most people see when seeing them in passing. Me and her do not have anything in common. I’ve lost that aspect of myself a long time ago. With the process I have learned to build my mind so if I ever had to ask myself “The question”, it will not be for me, but rather, “do you know who you are?” -HumNbyrd . . . . . . . #blackblogger #sapiosexual #blackwomen #blackmentalhealthmatters #HumNbyrd #blackwomenwhocook #urbanliving #vegetarian #food #foodie #healthmatters #blackwomenwhoblog #blackwomenwhowrite #blackwomenwhogarden #LosAngeles #healthyfoodshare #eatingclean #livinggood #greenfood #TheBayArea #GRAWRLY