#grapeburgerqueer

☆ if the name exists, use orangeboxqueer or grapeburgerqueer ☆

A blankqueer stance made for us personally, but anyone who identifies with it can use it. Emoji(s): 🤡🪡 (merry), 🟧🟧🌈 (orangebox), 🍇🍔🌈 (grapeburger)

This Label Supports:

(Most) TransIDs (including ones like transharmful and transmentalillness) and TransID alternatives

Endogenic/Non-Traumagenic Plurals + Created/Willowgenic/Tulpa Plurals

Anti-Harassment/Proship/Profic

Para, CNC, kink & consensual contact (for those not listed in the anti section)

MUDs (Medically Unrecognized Disorders)

Fictosexual/Romantic + other Ficto attractions + F/Os

Non-harmful Parasocial Relationships

Fictional* Consang, Ins-Sys Consang, and Consang Roleplay (*this includes F/Os who are related to S/Is, as well as shifters who are/do shift(ing) to fictional worlds where their romantic/sexual/queerplatonic parter(s) is/are related)

Transition for non-harmful TransIDs/alt TransID labels

Ex-Radqueers

Ex-Antiradqueers

POSIC+ and PAISIC

Objectum

Controversal, confusing, "contradicting," and "cringe" LGBTQ+ identities (including mspec lesbians/gays, amab transmascs, afab transfems, xenogenders/xenoidentities, etc) + MOGAI/LIOM

All non-cult/non-harmful religion

RAMCOA survivors

Demonized disorders like NPD, AVPD, and BPD

Recovery as well as not wanting to recover

IRL Yanderes, IRL Hikikomoris, etc (as long as it doesn't hurt anybody)

Alterhumans, Other-Kin and Therians

Harmless Fults/Faux-cults

This Label Is Against:

Transition for harmful TransIDs/alt TransID labels (any IDs that may harm you or others, mentally or physically, such as transharmful, transabused, and transaddict)

Transrace or Trace, and especially transitioning for Trace identities [yes, we are poc by the way.] (this applies specifically to Trace, and not alternative labels)

Harmful Parasocial Relationships (like those that involve stalking the person of interest)

Genuine IRL Consang (Consang with actual members of your family (or body's family, if you're plural))

Antiship/Pro-Harassment

Cult Religions

Contact for the big 3 paras (pedo, zoo and necro* (*if not consented to beforehand)), and other parties that cannot consent

Conabuse and harmful Fults/Faux Cults

Adult-Minor Relationships (this applies to romantic or sexual relationships, abusive or harmful relationships, and/or relationships where romantic or sexual activities occur. all other relationships exempt from the previously stated conditions are fine)

This Label Is Neutral On:

Radqueer

The use of Tulpa as a term

Kin-For-Fun

Merryqueer is purely neutral on radqueer, meaning both anti radqueers and radqueers can use it. It's focused mainly on non-harmful identities (those that do not cause physical, psychological or sexual harm) and consensual activity.

Coined by Annie of Mary-Anthill Coll.