#golly.

the EGL community has such a transmisogyny problem it’s so unreal. cis women will harass trans women or any men or any gnc trans ppl wearing lolita and cite the need “keep s*ssies out 🥺🥺” or “what if they wear it for fetish reasons 🥺” as a necessity to just ridicule strangers on the internet (or IRL comms!!!). as if alternative fashion is not super appealing to trans ppl who already sit outside of the confines of accepted norms. as if the sillouhette of not emphasizing your chest or hips couldn’t be super euphoric for trans ppl of all strides. as if it isn’t super appealing to us who are constantly fetishized just because we EXIST and also find a fashion founded in desexualization to feel safe and secure and should be welcomed. and also i’ve known cis and trans men who just enjoyed being sparkly and dressing in pink and came to meet-ups and believe it or not if you can only imagine they’re doing it to get off you’re the creep. also so tired of seeing y’all spew this and then have mana-sama on your blog, pick a lane

Perhaps a tad out of the blue (as I have not been too active lately), but I apologize to anyone who may have tried to send in any asks. I did not realize it was off for whatever reason.. should be fixed now! My sincerest of apologies.. I am still trying to get the hang of this.