#godspeed comrade

you seem like youd be better though, what works? 😫

Listen, idk what makes you think I would be a great person to ask on how to speak to your crush. I have a crush on a relief veterinarian that occasionally comes to my clinic and let me tell you, I don't know how to speak to her. She stands too close and all I smell is her perfume and it's like every normal function I have suddenly goes away. She touched my hand yesterday while I was holding a dog and I thought I was going to pass out. Gay panic never goes away. I also almost stabbed myself with a needle, drawing up a vaccine when she stood too close to me, because again, my senses were overran by her. She looks at me too long or smiles at me, I feel like my heart is going to implode. I can barely form a proper sentence to communicate with her doing my job. It's a work hazard if you ask me, but somehow I get paired up with her every time she's in.

Flirting through texting or messaging is way easier, cause they're not in front of you. Gives you a little more confidence and it's easier to get to know someone. When you're in person though, just talk to them normal. Ask how they are, what they've been up to, etc. Now, if you've already connected and they flirt with you already, game on. Call them darling, beautiful.. throw in a "my girl" and test the waters. FLOWERS. Buy them flowers. I had a crush on this bar tender one time and I had her coworker give her my number (I wrote it on a napkin, too shy to ask her out myself) anyways, she texted me and the next day I showed up to the bar during her mid day shift with a bouquet of flowers and a card asking her to dinner. She said yes.

omg hi babes im so happy for you that things are working out <3 manifesting you getting your first pick