Now that I've found out what I really want to do, outs just a matter of constantly moving towards that goal. After a hard, unsatisfying day of work, it's easy to think you deserve a night of relaxation. The problem is, the more "wind-down" nights you have, the longer it will take for you to get to your goal. It's crucial to put solid effort toward improving your life every chance you get. Otherwise, you'll stay in your burnout/cool off cycle forever.