I got my boyfriend flowers for Valentineās Day this year!
Iāve never taken a floral class, and I am not much of a āflowers personā myself, nor do I have any sort of natural eye for arranging anything with a feminine feel. I felt just about as lost as a stereotypical mainstraight man who had never made a bouquet. I knew it was going to be a challenge for me, but I was SO excited!
I watched a few tutorials, asked the poor florist at my local store so many questions, and kept an eye out for inspiration. Iād been thinking about it nonstop for the whole weekā what colors do I go with, what filler flowers do I use and how many, what round flowers do I use, what do I pair with his favorite flower⦠Then on Valentineās Day, I picked up the bunches of flowers Iād been eyeing from a couple different floral shops.
Building a bouquet from scratch was a lot of work š but also a bit easier than I anticipated! I was so happy with the final look, and SO excited to see my boyfriendās reactionā¦
I brought him into the kitchen and let him open his eyes.
He seemed kind of confused.
Uh oh, I was thinking. Fuck, maybe this was a bad idea.
Rambling nervously, I told him that I had arranged it myself. Picked out the flowers individually and put them all together just now. And that I knew they werenāt the Exact shade of purple thatās his favorite, but it was the closest I could getā¦
His jaw dropped. āOh, thatās for me???ā
I blinked. āYes, of course itās for you!! Who else would it be for?ā
āI donāt know! Itās so nice that I just thought it was a centerpiece on the table! I canāt believe you made that for me!ā
I had a good laugh about that (and the biggest breath of relief ever š ) while he stared at the flowers with big, wide eyes and spent the next 20 minutes fawning over them. He teared up a bit and said it was one of the sweetest things anyone had ever done for him.
Get your guy some flowers!!!!!!
I watched a lot of different tutorials but the most helpful I found were Jason Jinās, @ floweracademia on TikTok. Start there! Youāll have a lot of fun and maybe even get addicted to making bouquets for him!











