What's your usual coffee/tea order? Do you prefer warm or cold drinks? Do you have a favorite seasonal drink/treat?
You better prepare for a lengthy answer, since you asked this to a coffee snob.
So, most of the time I drink coffee at home. Mostly because coffee shops are not only bloody expensive, but most of them are inept at brewing a good cup to boot. If I do go, it's one of the independent shops where you can pick out what specific coffee drink you want your coffee made with. It's either an espresso or a cappuccino made with oatmilk. Never anything sweet in it, ever. In the summer I like to order iced coffee, again with oat milk. And for a special treat, an affogato. That's the only sweet thing I'd drink with coffee in it.
At home, I buy whole beans to grind them myself. I like to try different varieties of coffee, so I seldom buy big bags of it. My favourite go to roast is light roast arabica. The fruity notes and depth of flavour is something else compared to a darker roast. Never robusta though. Haven't had any luck with it so far, and I associate it with overpriced coffee drinks from Starbucks and the like. I weigh out my beans and my water on a scale for consistency, and let it steep for a good while. Steeping time can be a good 10-15 minutes. I use a French press, and it's served me well.
The ratios I use per cup:
If you want consistent good cups of coffee, it's important to know what you did to get there. Otherwise the experience can wary wildly, and you wouldn't know how you got to that great cup you just had.
As for tea, I like getting oolong or green tea. Spiced tea is also nice, and so is herbal. Not a big fan of fruit tea, but I'll drink it to be polite if I'm offered.
I'm fairly polite when it comes to getting hot beverages whenever I visit someone. I dont want to be rude just because someone doesn't make it the way I would prefer it. Hell, I'll even drink your sugar nightmare with a straight face if that's all you've got left. Who knows, maybe this is the time I'll like it? Probably isn't, but I'll still drink it.
Overall I think I prefer hot drinks. I live in a colder climate, so maybe that suits my answer quite well. I could also drink hot coffee in 40° weather no problem.
For seasonal treats, I guess all the cookies are starting to be spiced again, which I quite like. Ginger, cinnamon and cloves are great together. Especially if it's heavy on the ginger. There's not really any drinks I've been looking forward to, as I'm not a fan of the saccharine sweet drinks that come with the season. Not for me.