#ghost ref

Some recent art of my newest sona, Ghostly Night!

She is my absolute love and just *chefs kiss*

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Does your character have siblings or family members in their age group? Which one are they closest with? One sibling, yes. Younger sister - Adina (changed name)

What is/was your character’s relationship with their mother like? Mother left after little sister was born, 4 years difference never known mother well, enough to remember what it was like around her, and feeling safe

What is/was your character’s relationship with their father like? Grooming, Abuse. The couple years his mother was still around was full of aggressive outbursts and swearing, smashing furniture and the like,

Has your character ever witnessed something that fundamentally changed them? If so, does anyone else know? HIs sister dying. yes

On an average day, what can be found in your character’s pockets? coins, nice looking rocks that have been cleaned, 

Does your character have recurring themes in their dreams? Missing something, misplacing something; abscond with something

Does your character have recurring themes in their nightmares? abandonment, abuse

Does your character feel more comfortable with more clothing, or with less clothing? With more clothing. He likes modest clothes that cover lots of skin, baggy clothes that are comfortable. Not close-fitting clothing that show his figure.

In what situation was your character the most afraid they’ve ever been? A specific time trying to escape being locked in the basement, his father found him so he kicked and ran and got away. Afraid of being chased and afraid of being found and suddenly homeless without being able to gather any belongings

In what situation was your character the most calm they’ve ever been?

Is your character bothered by the sight of blood? If so, in what way? no

Does your character remember names or faces easier? Faces

What was your character’s favorite toy as a child? A small doll sewn in fabric given to him by his mother

What is your character’s biggest relationship flaw? Has this flaw destroyed relationships for them before? Not trusting, not being able to keep up with high need relationships, not being easy to get along with, to secluded. never had relationships to destroy, but will make future relationships difficult to keep

In what ways does your character compare themselves to others? Do they do this for the sake of self-validation, or self-criticism? considers himself unloveable and incapable of being cared for, does not trust new people, and when he gets to know someone tries not to be dependent. constant fear of being dropped 

If something tragic or negative happens to your character, do they believe they may have caused or deserved it, or are they quick to blame others? he feels he caused it and he deserved any bad outcome

What does your character like in other people? kindness

What does your character dislike in other people? anger

How quick is your character to trust someone else? very very slow

How does your character behave around children? awkwardly, unknowing of how to act or what to do

How does your character normally deal with confrontation?

What did your character dream of being or doing as a child? Did that dream come true? to live alone so no one will yet at him, no he ends up living with some very good people though,

What does your character find repulsive or disgusting?

Describe a scenario in which your character feels most comfortable. alone relaxing on a made bed

Describe a scenario in which your character feels most uncomfortable. any social experience really

In the face of criticism, is your character defensive, self-deprecating, or willing to improve? pretty exclusively self-deprecating

How does your character behave around people they like? talks a bit more, more reactive, more excitable

How does your character behave around people they dislike? short answers, passive

Is your character more likely to remove a problem/threat, or remove themselves from a problem/threat? remove themselves

Has your character ever had a dependent figure who was not related to them? yes. two. the people he lives with (which will be explained later)

How easy or difficult is it for your character to say “I love you?” Can they say it without meaning it? very very difficult. if he can say that then it has been over years of building a very strong safe relationship

“You don’t want to end up like your sister.... Do you?”