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What Are Some Little Things That Make You Feel Warm And Fuzzy?

So, uh, I’m in a bad mood - this may not work out the way the original writer intended.

The first taste of coffee of the day. The day can only get better from here

Knowing you have enough money to pay all your bills and still buy a coffee. (Been a while since this has happened for me!)

Waking up to a nice text message. Not a bloody demand for more money. Or a phone call. Don’t wake me with a phone call!

A nice iced coffee at almost any time of the day. Or year.

My cats curling up on me. And settling quickly instead of padding for two years. And purring away. I love them. Cats.

People appearing to pre-planned events on time, and DEFINITELY not changing things last minute.

A photo coming out exactly as I had planned, or better.

A warm response to something I have given to someone.

Cake. Especially warm cake. Moist cake. Cake.

Friendship, without the emo moments. When we’re all laughing together at something, whether intelligent or stupid. We’re all laughing together and that’s important.

Correct grammar, especially from someone who usually gets it wrong and has learned.

When my dad smiles. 

Would You Rather Date Someone Plain With An Amazing Personality, Or Someone Beautiful With A Plain Personality?

Like, is this a trick question?

Seriously though, the answer seems obvious to me. Though thinking about it, there’s pros and cons to both...

For me though, I’d go with the first, because someone with an amazing personality - that’s like, what holds you there after the initial romance period has settled. It’s what keeps you guessing, wanting, waiting. Looking for those subtle nuances that make a person tick.

Someone with purely an attractive face or body. Well, then you’ve seen it all, haven’t you?

A Picture Of What You Wore Today

I did not do the picture taking so I’ll just regale you with a written picture right now, and you can create the visuals for yourself. 

Concerts You Have Attended

Not many, to be honest. Mostly roadshows and the like.

I’ve seen Lee Evans live twice! Met him after! When I was about 15, I also saw Steps with my little sister. Oh, Nik Kershaw too, he’s awesome. And uh...The Barron Knights. 

If The World Were To End Tomorrow, What Would You Do With Your Remaining Time On Earth?

Um, let it be said that I probably wouldn’t know the world would end tomorrow so...

3 Confessions Of Your Choice

Well, as I’m supposed to be studying right now and I’m cold AF, and there’s a cat on me impeding my movement, I guess I’ll do this instead! Now, it’s asking for 3 confessions but I don’t even know if I have anything worth telling! Like, what do you want to hear?

1, Baths - I adore them, but only get to have them like, 3 times a year. No exaggeration. We have to make do with showers because of the water rates. It’s so expensive we just can’t afford any more than that. I realise this is a first world problem, because hey, at least we can get clean.

2, Privilege - Anytime someone tells me to ‘check my privilege’, I want them to check TF out. Seriously. They don't know what I deal with or how I live, so who are they to tell me what I have over another? More to the point, everyone has some kind of privilege, so why is it being used in a negative sense? Everyone is different, we all have different means, and there’s an incredible amount of inequality in the world, so why try to make it more divisive by making those feel guilty about the tiny things they do have? I’m fully aware that in some respects, I’m luckier than others. You don’t get to throw that in my face, especially if it’s something I have no control over. Just like I don’t get to throw shit in yours.

3, Talent - I’m surrounded by people better than I, and it doesn’t do much for one's self esteem unless you count the fact that I helped train some of them. Still, I’m incredibly proud of all they’re achieving right now, and soon I hope to share some of that success too. 

Pet Peeves

So, aren’t you lucky that I made a video on this just yesterday! Watch it by clicking below.