they keep doing this they keep throwing in scenes of All Time in this sl how is everyone not watching thissss @ emmerdale main tag. put down your misogynists for a sec and come and watch beautiful amazing charity and debbieeeeee. Every time you're horrible to my dad he turns it on me. the seminal line at the centre for everything, of it all. followed up by a reference to cain as absent, as drunk, as a typical fatherrrrr.. so typical they barely spend a second on it. why be disappointed when this is all that can be expected, this is family, no this is fatherhood specifically. charity refusing to come back to the claustrophobic oppressive vortex of trauma and horror and squalor that is the dingle house.. shed rather be out in the streets.. she just wants a place for her and debbieeeee, a place of her own, a room of her own... But cain's machinations have resulted in debbie being as trapped as charity, resulted in the fact that charity can't have her without cain, without the Family..there's no easy way out, there's no way out, full stop. ever. the moment he found out the blood of debbie, the biological status of her as His offspring, as His, so valorised by society system and state.. it was all over. And for chris too ofc.. debbie's treacherous, filthy incestuous blood.. the unwanted child of two animals, of two dingles.....and charity knew this from the start...she knew and it Happened just as she knew it would. Her wretched life she has no control over.....all she can do is watch
and then charity describing herself as chris' Wife.. the contract, the business transaction, the horror fuelled situation that she has to pin all her hopes on.. for what she is Owed, the professional and the personal, the abuse and the amorous. the money he was so happy to throw at her while he Had her, while he still pretended to love her, the 'romance' the 'sanctity' of marriage. his happy abuse of power, of wealth, of resources, that constructed created and continued throughout their marriage and further sets into rot now.. now the bitch, the whore Really deserves it. to be Taught a lesson, like the child he sees her as. doesn't this just crack open every terror, every unsteady base that the whole institution of marriage is founded on...
and their bond over loneliness.. charity and debbie, my two lonely girls of all time. debbie with none, with no one, charity only with those who hate and scorn her..And her misery her disgust her rejection of dingle and tate blood obsession, lineage, their warring dynasties (that still go on todayyyy), the desperate and despairing hope for real connection, without the mire of family and marriage.. the love isn't enough, debbie can't be it all, charity soooo sad by debbie's beauty and empathy in this moment .. her rejection of friendship.. whilst debbie treats her better than any friend she's ever had. debbie who mothers her mother. charity who cries because all she's got is her baby, her little girl... Which is everything and Nothing all at once. the way this sl.. so much of the thesis of it.. is just that love isn't Enough. it's not enough to save them, it's not enough to save anyone .. but especially not women and their little girls
