#fuzzyfloofs

carer with a traumatized age regressor they know they're helping to heal everytime they slip.

never received toys/were given very few toys as a kid? bubbas spoiling you in all the toys you want! if their kiddo is a little more shy and feeling guilty, they'll notice their little one eyeing a toy. "do you want it puppy? no need to feel bad, i just wanna give you everything you deserve"

went without food in public? carer will always order something for you, you never have to watch them eat while you have nothing. "oh honey I would never~ not only is that mean, but you gotta grow big and strong like me!"

went without food/snacks in private? your caregiver always makes sure they stock up on your favorite snacks and brands- no matter how specific they are. there's no shame in only eating a certain brand or flavor of chips. there's always groceries in the house and they're happy to cook for you, wanting to make sure you're safe AND fed. "are you hungy? I can get my sweetheart their favorite snack until the pastas done?"

had bad physical treatment? they would NEVER even THINK about laying a hand on you. if you misbehave or act up, they understand you're just in littlespace. like real kids, emotions can be hard and some moments arent good. sometimes kids like to test boundaries, there's nothing wrong with that. they won't let it slide and will issue lines, time outs, and stuff like early bedtime or shorter playtime- but nothing physical or mentally damaging. "angel I know you're all upset and shouting at bubba, but I need you to sit in the chair for 5 minutes. we don't yell."

missed out on a lot of childhood experiences? that's okay! your cg is soooo happy to integrate anything into their routine. whether it's storytime, going to the park, holiday celebrations, they're happy to accomodate! "oh you wanna have a bubba baby book read before your nap? of course little one!"

touch starved and wanting a lot of physical affection? they'll love on you SO much to try and make up for it! cuddles, pats, carries, boops, you got it! "awww does munchkin need a hug? cmere"

weren't treated the best emotionally? they understand how it can impact you. your carer always reminds you that you're not a burden, it wasn't your fault, and they truly do love you. they're not lying to you, they don't hate you, there's no maliciousness or ulterior motives- just pure love and care. "I know it was a lot, and I'm sorry you had to live through that angel- but I'm glad you're with me now. As long as I'm here, and as long as you'll let me- I won't let anyone treat you like that again. I pinky promise, my little love. Always, and forever."

tw: no explicit mentions, but implied abuse

My (future caregiver) mommy is watching a boring grown up show on the tv and I'm sitting on the floor giggling n making noise as I'm playing with my toys near her. Although it can be heard with her show, she's not mad. She simply smiles and understands I'm an itsy bitsy kiddo and it's normal n okay for me to make noise in play

Me not understanding something/a concept and she takes the time to break it down for little me to understand. Very calmly and without insulting me or my ability.

Having big girl feelings when tiny and her helping me regulate them, even if they aren't expressed in good ways. Like throwing toys, harmful self stims, kicking. She understands kiddos can struggle with feelings and tells me that what I did wasn't a good way to express them, and helps me do healthier ones instead

My mommy being busy doing big girl work but I interrupt asking her for food cuz I hungy. Although her focus on the work is needed, she understands I'm tiny and can't cook safely/properly for myself and takes a break to make me lunch before resuming. She would never want me to be helpless and without food.

carer that tried to get you to sleep but it wasnt successful. maybe you put up too much of a fight, were sick, have insomnia, had a nightmare, whatever it was-- they leaned into the idea youre not going to sleep at a normal time tonight.

carer that untucks you and lets you stay in your comfy jammies, only putting some shoes on you before headin out for a night drive with cool music playin

carer that asks you what you want or chooses for you. anything is okay. pizza? yep. insomnia cookies? theyre still open, so of course!

carer that parks at a gas station for mid/late night snacks and lets you pick whatever you want in your jammies.

carer who brings you home and sets up your favorite movie for you or lets you play roblox

carer who has all your favorite stuffies, comfort items, blankies, snacks, etc all ready for you

carer who watches you, but is definitely on their phone, reading, or doing some independent activity near you

carer that doesnt try to force anything because they know its just one of those nights and its okay to bend the script every now and then

carer that's there to carry you to bed when you eventually fall asleep ---------------------------------------------------------------------

regressor who is 100% leeching off it but also super confused

regressor who finds the car ride serene and soothing

regressor who draws on the windows with their hands OR pretends the raindrops are racing

regressor who loves being near their carer and enjoying the peace

regressor who has a very good fond memory of tonight

regressor who plays minecraft, fortnite, roblox, whatever game they want as long as they can --------------------------------------------------------------------- "Bubba not mad it past bedtime an I not eepy?" "No, kiddo" "Bedtime no matter no more?" "Nah, don't get used to it kid. Bubba wants you to sleep, but sometimes we just can't and I don't think it's fair to force you to lay in bed when it's so hard tonight. Yk bug, Bubba doesn't even do that themselves, so they'd never do it to their little rascal. Besides, I know ya can't stay awake forever"

regressor who draws silly little pictures on the walls

regressor who plans a water balloon assault on their carer and sneaks a laundry basket outside to prepare the weaponery!

regressor who loves (playfully) hitting carer with their bouncy ball and giggles everytime it happens

regressor who uses chalk outside and somehow gets it all over their clothes and come back with rainbow hands

regressor who hoards the cardboard to make an elaborate slide for themselves, stuffies, or toys to go down!

regressor who also guards said stairs from carer like "no you cant go down here! tell me what you want and ill retrieve it for you!"

regressor who embodies full gremlin energy

regressor that does the most diabolical things and immediately asks for a snack like that didn't just happen

regressor that probably unapologetically vocal stims and acts feral: like meowing, growling, rawring

regressor who is stupidly competitive in video games, board games, and races

"no fair!!! thats cheating!!" (carer won far and square) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------

carer who is convinced their regressor is half mole with the amount of digging they do

carer who only smiles when they see their messy kiddo come inside after a long day of playing outside.

carer who has a rule of "no running into the house" because their kiddos dirty lil feet n shoes would ruin the place

carer who also helps their tiny take off their shoes n wipe off their feet before coming inside (unless its bath time....which they'll escort you via air jail to the decontamination chambers [aka carried to the bathroom])

carer who teases their kiddo about being oh so stinky and messy, playfully pinching their own nose and saying "peeeyew!" while looking away

carer who plays into their tiny's shenanigans because they know how happy it makes their little one (even when they can predict what will happen)

carer that becomes terrified if the house/backyard is quiet outside of naps because that means something is NOT right (they can always hear their kiddo running around or tinkering with something)

carer that lets their kiddo win in a non-obvious way because they knew what would happen if they didn't

"oh yeah? I'll prove to you that I didn't! Let's rematch!" *lets the baby win on purpose*

carer healing traumatized age regressor through every slip you grew up in poverty and became financially conscious before you shouldve? PROHIBITED in headspace. you like a toy or item? you can have it. no hesitation. no buts. "dont worry about how much it costs, we have enough. we'll always have enough for your needs and wants. I promise you that, little one." The only amount you need to be worried about are the numbers on your play cashier set, silly! left somewhere alone a lot/for a long time? (car, home, etc). no more. carer ALWAYS checks in with you about your boundaries. they let you know when they'll leave, and ask if you want to come with. "of course sweetie, I love spending time with you, you're my little passenger prince/ess/x" or if they can't take you (like work), they'll make sure you're all set up, entertained, and have your needs met before they leave. "yeah, bubbas got to go to their adult job, but if you're good, they'll get you a new stuffie, hmm?" plus- they care about you so much you could be watching cartoons n get texts from them! ~ "don't eat too much ice cream while I'm gone buggie! missing you already" your neurodivergence was demonized and your actions seen as intentionally malicious? when they find out, they're heartbroken because to them, its a core part of your personality and character. yes, you get overstimulated in public...or get hyperfixated on something random, so what? That's fine by them-- they accommodate for it all. "Muffin, I love and chose you, that means all of you. The good, the bad, the ugly. You're never too much for me, it means a lot that you trust me enough to unmask and talk to me about these things." you're bratty, disobedient, anxious when regressed or given love? That's okay. You're just a baby. It's developmentally appropriate for you to distrust them and laugh it off or act out subconsciously, you went through a lot. your carer knows that too. They just choose to smother you with kindness until you trust and believe in the authenticity of their actions. "Mmm, well, hate to break it to you angel, but I still love you despite you laughing at a 5 minute timeout." bullied for your interests? your caregiver wants to know ALL about it. because they're curious about their little baby, of course! they love seeing you happy, and if it means listening to facts about stuff, then heck yeah! "Glass frogs are quite interesting, what about the other species hun?" you experience impure regression? They try their best to help, even if they don't entirely understand. They'll comfort you through a sob session, hold you or give space during a meltdown, rub your back and affirm you through nightmares, stay close with a shield during tantrums (because it's okay to let out your big feelings!). whatever you need, a blankie, paci, comfort meal, etc, they'll get it. Silence if you need it, comforting words too. There is no need to beg them for anything, they just remember, notice, or know. "Do you need your AAC cards? Let me get them for you, I know words are hard right now." boundaries pushed over in the past? Consent is key. You hold the key. Nothing will progress without your consent. It doesn't matter if it's a year in and you're still uncomfortable with them taking care of you, they'll wait. They are not trampling over any boundary you set down. Instead, they always communicate with you and see you as a teammate, not an object to use. They'll work with you at your own pace. "Yes pumpkin, I promise it's okay that you aren't comfortable with cuddling right now. Carer is just fine with headpats as long as their baby is comfy." took some suggestions from the reposts and comments of my last one, I hope this provides some more comfort to you all. I'm sorry if you have/do relate to any of these, you didn't deserve any of it, but you know what you do deserve? Unconditional love and support, no matter the headspace you're in. And you'll have that one day.

mommy having big adult business to do n her breaking the news to me after nap time. "hi there little love, awww. i see youre all rested....hey well mommy has to finish up some work, so she has your little ipad n your toys to play with n your sippy, yeah?" little sleepy nods her patting my head n kissin my cheek before she goes off to do her work "once mommys done, we can go walkin together through the forest."

playin games on my ipad n makin the CUTEST lookin room n collectin all the animals n dressin up my characters in cool stuffs. watchin cartoons while snuggling my stuffed bunny. "snibbles do i gets dis won or dah won?" silence "yah das wa i thougt u say-- ur da bestest fashionista!"

randomly wanting to color a pretty picture n usin allll the glitter crayons to make the ponies all sparkly!! "snibbles mommy gon put it on da fwidge cu sh AWAYS do dah!! you gon see!"

gettin a lil bored n curious n peeking around the corner of mommys office n going back to my own business, disappointed that she wasnt doin anythin interestin/fun to me

running to my room after i remembered that me and mommy gona hava nature walk tday!! cuz that means i gotta pick a backpack n make sur it has all da important stuffs!! wike my adventur stuffie and and spaces for leaves n pinecones. "i fink i wan m melody bakpak todays...?"

having a tea party n picnic after i done packing. pretending that im doin a grand exit when mamas done so i gotta warn all my royal guests! ahem "yus oh yus, i fancy i cannot stay so long...for my mo-butler must escort me through the royal gardens.." cue the imaginary fancy pinkie cup holding

mommy crashing the tea party like "itsy bitsy, where'd you g- oh hi there! i must be interrupting something?" cue the giggles

excitedly grabbing my backpack n mommy helpin me put m shoes on so we can go!! skippin ahead n circling her n walkin backwards n all the fun stuffs! we decide to rest somewhere n as i lookin for leaves shes like "princess?" "yah mama?" "youre so loved, and i dont ever want you to question, let alone doubt that fact." body wiggles like my invisible tail is waggin! "for weal life?" "for real life baby."

later on when i big she validates da heckk out of me like "I'm sorry about everything you went through. It wasn't fair then, and it's still not now. I don't know how you're still so soft, kind, pure--- but I love you for that-- all of you. You'll never feel so unloved and miserable around me, I promise. I love you, and because I love you, I want to do everything in my power to give you the best treatment ever--which is what you deserve bunny." the tightest, warmest cuddle ever w back rubs

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hi fwends-- icl, today was really roughs for me. family was really mean to me today that i was just super sads n mentally chcked out. came home n just wanted a nice mommy n so i made n wroteds this. this made me feel better.....and it had me thinkin-- i wonder what u guys get out of my writing? i hope it brings comfort to u guys the same way it does for me. kay bye bye fwends.