#fun tips

If somebody approaches you, ask them of their bloodline and a family tree.

Carefully check it with your own.

There's still no guarantee, don't trust people who tell you otherwise!

Just leave the town for good.

Never stop running.

Leave the country.

Go to a different world with a girl who looks like your aunt.

Repeat in a different world in case of no success.

Free tip: Try not to become a mother of your mother or kiss your aunt.

If you love them and just can't help yourself, I guess it's fine, according to the writers of Dark.

boy clothes: super cool, bright colors, cartoon characters and expressive animals (no "gentle" animals though), band t-shirts, neat shoes, sports, nerdy stuff, clothes with uplifting and inspiring quotes

girl clothes: a sea of pastel colors but no blues, almost all shirts have flared out waistlines, so many frills, very soft, lots of princesses and some baby animals, little to no shirts with quotes except about being pretty, no band or nerd or sports related clothes, JUST ALL THE PASTEL FLARED OUT SHIRTS

unisex clothes: there's like five things and they're boring, you'll have more luck finding clothes for your dog

cribs: there are like 5 different kinds and 500 of each, lol good luck

strollers: same as cribs, except some also include car seats/carriers and it's impossible to tell the difference

moniters and thermometers (and basically everything): only two reviews - one says it's the best thing ever, the other is a dire warning against buying it

swings: do you get what looks like one of the many different regular swings or the confusing "modern" one that looks exactly like those weird ass egg chairs in Men in Black???

breast pumps: you spend fifteen minutes wondering how different each one feels and suctions your boobs and come to no conclusion

crib comforter sets: sudden panic that you weren't aware that everyone in these pictures plans their kid's room around a comforter and nothing matches what you had in mind originally

safety items: oh god everything in your house is designed to kill babies, bubble wrap EVERYTHING

white noise machine: this little shit is getting a cheap ass fan and they will LIKE IT

baby food prep equipment: buy the stuff to be the mom you wanna be but probably will never use because you're exhausted

bath tub: they can use a laundry basket, it's basically the same thing

do you have any writing or art tips ?

you're not going to start out as an expert, continue to practice.

20+ Hilarious Questions to Ask Your Partner – (to Shake Off a Bad Day).

Life…? It’s just a combination of anything and everything. Wouldn’t it be amazing if everyday was filled with sunshine, rainbows, humour, laughter and all of that? Yessss! Of Course.

But let’s be real, not every day is a cake walk. Life isn’t really a bed of roses you know. It sure has it’s ups and downs. However, I’ve got a little trick to turn any frowns upside down, make you laugh until…

Make This Your Summer of Self-Care

(NC) Summer is a great time to relax and unwind, focusing on your physical and mental health. But sometimes the whirlwind of activities and having the kids home can get in the way of making this a time to de stress.

Get your self-care in check with these tips and ideas: Spend time outside.There’s nothing like enjoying fresh air, sun and nature to make you feel calm and centered. Pick an activity…

You have waited patiently through winter - through the battles with snowpants and  mittens and snow boots - all the time longing and wishing summer were here. And now it is !!! Your children are home and possibly awake, alert and energetic for 18 hours a day at least :) Some of you will may be more used to this than others and know to  go with the flow...but here are some ideas to help make the 86 days of summer vacation happy and fun. 

1. Boredom is GOOD - in fact GREAT! Here’s a link as to why !

https://qz.com/704723/to-be-more-self-reliant-children-need-boring-summers/

2.Gardening is a great way to support gross motor needs in a purposeful way. Children learn so much from caring for plants and all the while burnong their energy. 

https://raisinglifelonglearners.com/summer-gardening-with-kids-2/

3. Outdoor Art - always fun because of the promise and potential for messes!

https://artfulparent.com/21-outdoor-art-ideas-for-kids/

4. Cooking with your child - This is a no-brainer if you are okay with letting go :)

https://twohealthykitchens.com/favorite-summer-recipes-for-kids/

In fact let your child / children organize a party for a few friends - let them plan and make the food and plan the activities...you may be amazed. Always ensure you have clearly stated expectations of safety, respect and courtesy before you do this.

5.Reading with your child - never ever underestimate the value of this...nothing like a a little reading together to calm bodies into transitions, especially during mid-day and evening times. Read to them your favorite books growing up - and then on occasion (if your child is a reader) ask them to read to you to help YOU rest and decompress. 

6. Keeping a journal - a pictoral journal or a written one depending on your child. - one thought a day is enough - if they have more, don’t stop them. Encourage them to mentally go throughtheir day - assist the younger ones with “What happened next?” and then ask them to pick a highlight. At the end of week, spend some unrushed time looking at the week gone by and choose a moment that can mark a week. This is a great way to help children understand the passae of time. 

7. Connect to the community - maybe take a bunch of flowers/ flower arrangement on a fixed day to an elderly/ailing neighbor. Let your child make them a card or artwork. Let them offer to read to them if they can . Children are incredibly empathetic and only need the gentlest of nudges to help and look beyond themselves.