Don’t get too emotional. No, seriously. Don’t allow things to hurt you.
I know that it’s gonna happen anyway but at least not because of yourself. This crap about all the sentimentality and how wonderful is to feel these feelings is just a way to hurt you more. How often do you hear this phrase:"It doesn't matter what feelings it brings, it is great to have feelings at all", and other stuff about how good to feel like shit. Just think about it, think how ridiculous it sounds. You bring a pain to yourself. Damn, it seems even worse.
Of course, you are gonna have a love of your life, happy and forever, money, power, family and every piece of shit that you always wanted but don’t think too much about it. Do not plan every detail of your future, don’t analyze, don’t go deep. Just live you freaking life. It’s fucking perfect, dude. I don't appreciate the people who are telling all these that I mentioned before but I can agree with them in a way. These feelings are what makes you fee alive. It hurts so badly but it is a life.
But the point in my post is not this. The point is that we all have bad days. And that's alright. We all humans after all, right? And more we want something, less chance that we are ever gonna get it. Unfortunately. Do not push the things. If they were meant to be, they will. Do not give yourself false hopes to avoid any broken promises. In the end, we are the ones who brought this pain. We are the ones who believed something or someone who turned their back on us. We are the ones who got ourselves in troubles.
But don't get it that close. Things are gonna happen to you and it will have different endings, and yes, you are gonna feel desperate, devastated, lost, lonely, guilty, useless but it’s fine. It’s just for a moment. Just don’t take everything that hard. Don’t be harsh on yourself. Just relax. In a mean time, everything is gonna be just fine. Just live.









