This is what I mean when I say TIFs are deeply ignorant to reality when it comes to the men that date them. They really can't see the danger.
In the above post, we have a TIF ranting about her "jackpot" of a boyfriend who openly encourages her to self-harm encourages her top surgery goals. She thinks this man is "joking" about literally wanting to see her get her breasts chopped off. I do sense the tiniest bit of discomfort here - hence why she's asking the FTMMen (which is for so-called "binary" trans men) community where they stand on it. Thankfully most are pointing out how wildly unethical this would be, but of course there are a handful that thinks it would be just wonderful for him to be there.
Anyway maybe I'm the crazy one but this post genuinely felt so ghoulish to me. Imagine considering yourself "lucky" to be with a man who is thrilled at the idea of your body being hacked to pieces. It's like some weird form of BDSM play except as you and I know, the men are not "playing" at all - the violence they are enacting (or in this case, would merely be witness to) is very much real.
