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✘ - hates?

[[ Gosh, that’s a big question. I wish the maker of this meme was more specific. I’ll give ya a couple. Note that there is no PERSON I hate on this list, for hate is a very strong word for a reason.

Many veggies, but not all (steamed broccoli [but I like it raw, same with carrots], peas, cauliflower, asparagus, spinach, brusselsprouts, eggplant, corn from a can because of the nasty syrup, just to name a few)

The fact that if you’re a big chested person, then don’t even THINK about wearing anything strapless or sleeveless without a stupid jacket. And I don’t mean like you’re size B or C, I mean like BIGGGG. Shopping for clothes, jump-roping, running, blah blah blah…I could probably wear a medium in a lot of ways were it not for certain female attributes of mine.

The fact that I’m a hopeless romantic who since a young age, my biggest dream is to get married and have children. And yet nothing is happened and I thought it would by now. I know that I don’t need a man to be happy, but it isn’t ABOUT that. Some people think that if a girl wants to get married, it seems to be a ‘bad thing’, like it means she doesn’t know how to make herself happy. This can be true, but not always!!! I want it because I want it. That is all. And I have trouble seeing myself actually get it, and I wish I didn’t want it, because I know if I end up single and without kids one day, then I will be very, very sad. I can adopt, yes. so that may be my one way to avoid this. But I hate how much I want someone to be with, even though I know I can make my own happiness. But I want what I want. And I’d like some validation that I can be loved romantically, but some days I think ‘nnnnnnnnope.’ I know I can be loved–I’ve got a great family and awesome friends that do, but I mean romantically. Could I just not want that, please? I know how to make myself happy without relying on other people, it’s something I vowed to myself after falling in love for the first time (as in not a crush, but actual I-want-to-be-with-you-and-I-actually-daydream-about-it-and-the-fact-that-you-don’t-return-them-makes-me-incredibly-upset. I’ve had crushes before, but if they didn’t like me back, the most I’d be sad for is maybe an hour or two, MAYBE a day, but then I shrugged and moved on). But when that happened I vowed to make myself happy without needing others always around, and I can do that now, but I still want stupid romance and all that crap.

People that KNOW how badly you want a romantic relationship, only for them to say “it’s not that great, trust me. Boys/Girls suck.” Like they are implying that I think love is rainbows and butterflies and frolicking through fields of flowers and nothing else. Yes, I realize that romantic love is also one of the hardest things to have and it can make you want to punch a wall even though that will break your hand. Please do not downplay this dream I have. I’m sorry that you had a bad breakup or something, but I still want it, and I wish I had at least an experience in it like you did. I would rather love and get loved in return and then get hurt then to have nothing at all. Please. Don’t make me feel like I’m being silly when I’m not.

BLACK LICORICE IS HORRIBLE, WHY DO YOU CALL THIS ‘CANDY’? WHAT IS THIS EVIL SORCERY??????

Book bans. NO.

Anons that tell people to kill themselves or other horrible things. WHO THE HECK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE AND WHY ARE YOU SO FOND OF HURTING OTHERS? DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA OF THE CONSEQUENCES YOUR ACTIONS COULD RESULT IN? Don’t you have a heart? Because if so, please use it and stop hurting others to the point of tears or maybe even doing such an act. Life is hard enough already. We don’t need your gasoline for the flames.

People who do not acknowledge your existence when you are making an honest effort to be social with them because they are deluded into thinking that they are too good for someone they don’t even know yet, and look at you like you’re a scumbag just for asking a simple “How are you?” or saying “Hey, my name is (insert here), what’s yours?” Like they give you this dirty look just for trying to be friendly.

Shoes that SEEM like they fit when you try it and walk a little at the store, only for them to destroy and kill you when you actually try wearing them for a day.

AMERICA’S SCHOOL SYSTEM AND HOW WE ARE MAKING CHILDREN STAY INSIDE AND SIT STILL IN THEIR DESKS AND GIVING THEM ANXIETY AS EARLY AS THE AGE OF 2 OR 3 AND HAVE THEM WORRY ABOUT DUMB STANDARDIZED TESTS AND NOT ENCOURAGING CREATIVE ARTS OR ANYTHING THAT ISN’T BOOKLEARNING AND CUTTING OUT RECESS AND EXTRACURRICULARS AND THINGS LIKE ART AND MUSIC AND GYM AND ALL THOSE FUN THINGS BECAUSE GOSH IF YOU’RE KID DOESN’T KNOW ARITHMETIC BY FIVE YEARS OLD THEN HE WON’T GET TO COLLEGE AND THEN HE JUST WON’T EVER SUCCEED EVER BECAUSE ALL OUR KIDS NEED TO BE BOOK LEARNING BUSINESSMEN WHO ARE REPPRESSED AND NOT ALLOWED TO EXPRESS INTERESTS THAT AREN’T IN THAT BEAVER DAM STANDARDIZED TEST. STUDIES HAVE SHOWN THAT CHILDREN DO BEST IN THEIR NATURAL ENVIRONMENT AND GIVEN FREE PLAY, THAT THEIR BRAINS GET ALL THE STIMULATION THEY NEED IN SUCH AN ENVIRONMENT. THEY CAN GET NEW NEURAL CONNECTIONS AND INCREASE SYNAPTOGENESIS JUST BY FINDING A FREAKING POT IN THE KITCHEN AND FINDING OUT THAT BANGING THE LID AGAINST THE POT MAKES A FUN SOUND. THEY DO NOT NEED TO BE FORCED TO LISTEN TO MOZART AS BABIES OR BE PUSHED INTO A BUNCH OF EXTRACURRICULAR STUFF TO GET SMARTER AND THEN HAVE NO TIME FOR FREE PLAY. THEY DO NOT NEED TO LEARN TO READ BY THE FREAKING AGE OF ONE YEARS OLD AND THAT IS ACTUALLY IMPOSSIBLE. FREE PLAY IS GOOD. RECESS IS GOOD. GIVING THEM OPPORTUNITIES TO CHOOSE FOR THEMSELVES AND LETTING THEM PLAY AND RUN AROUND AND EXPLORE ON THEIR OWN IS GOOD. ENCOURAGING INTERESTS THAT AREN’T MATH OR SCIENCE IS GOOD. LET KIDS BE KIDS DAMNIT.