If your Besties don’t hype you up, find good pictures to post and celebrate your special days with moving tributes that bring 🧅 🧅 to your eyes..🥺💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️ #FriendBlessed . Repost from @ianandreespinet • As a teen I was mildly obsessed with the concept of “paths taken and paths not taken” - the idea of what would have happened if I turned left instead of right at a certain juncture in life. Today, I’m grateful for the combination of: the chance decision to stop into Flow 93.5 circa 2002 with a greedy baby in tow, and the frozen yogurt craving that conspired with the universe to have you return just as I exited the building, on a day you should have been long gone - in the process granting me: one of the few I've known (known) less than 20 years who can claim the word friend; one of my most trusted confidants; a source of unlimited laughter; unmoderated honesty; a true cheerleader; someone who ALWAYS wishes the best for me whether we speak 7 times daily or monthly, according to our revolving schedule (and with whom neither time nor space skips a beat); someone to share my deepest thoughts, fears, hopes and secrets with (without judgement or chance or recourse) [and I pray you know all of these are equally reciprocated] - part of the blueprint from which I molded my daughter and partial creator of my image of a great Black woman; a teacher and quotable creator and taker of space in my knowledge bank; connector of dots; opportunity watcher outter for-er; member of a three way friendship which seldom speak as 3; and part owner of credit to my success; the camo wearer; the big daddy Kane, little daddy Shane overdoer; my true and prototype friend, Jem. In the words of someone wise: You’re the besssssssssst. And mi love you. Happy bday. A million photos and a million more memories to come. Dreams of paradise to fulfill. To continued greatness, and forward movement. Thank you to the universe for the chance encounter that put you in my life. I’m grateful. 😘 https://www.instagram.com/p/CQJQUTElfCp/?utm_medium=tumblr













