Chinaâs Sexism: Women Hold Up Half The Sky While Being A Second Class Citizen
(âMy vagina is not a gift.â)
This is a country well-known for its socialism with Chinese characteristics and its founder Maoâs famous quote âWomen Hold Up Half The Sky.â However, women are still second class citizens on this vast land.Â
I met a cab driver today who told me women donât know directions, itâs âour nature.âÂ
âFemale drivers have to be specifically trained on directions,â the driver said proud and loud, âAll women are the same.â
When I was at my old apartment, the new owner asked me to âshut up,â when I was asking him a question, because he was âtalking.â Then he turned to another woman who was also asking questions, and said âGo away and be a good girl.â
This country celebrated March 8 International Womenâs Day by arresting the feminists who planned to advocate for womenâs rights on the street, and subsequently detained them for 37 days. Over the last weekend, I had the honor to hang out with the group of underground feminists. These are a group of young and brave women who gather from time to time to advocate for womenâs rights. They have done campaign of anti-sex abuse, anti-sexual harassment and anti-domestic abuse. Some are being hunted by the authorities after the arrests of their fellow feminists.Â
The most surprising thing I learned is being so courageous and progressive, they are also very vulnerable when confronting the male dominated society and the autocratic state who would do anything to crack them down. With double pressure, this group of women were sexually harassed by the male human rights lawyers, people they turn to when under persecution of the government. Those are lawyers who claim to fight for human rights while being a human right abuser.Â
I saw often enough when living in Beijing, men were publicly violent to women. Many times on the street, I saw a man pushed a woman to the ground, slapped her on the face or threw things at her, while no one said anything. I read on the news that female cab drivers being attacked and a female student was set on fire because she rejected the wooing of a boy. Violence to women is heartbreakingly prominent, while people who speak up are detained and charged with wrongful names.Â
Besides violence, discrimination is deeply rooted in society. Every old woman asks me to get married after they probed about my age and martial status. In many companies, itâs often a male department head leading a group of women workers, while women make up 23.4% of the almost 3,000 hand-picked deputies in the Chinese national Congress.  Women of certain age are rejected in job interviews because they are considered to get pregnant soon and would leave her work. Schools lower their admission standard for male students in female-dominant majors like language and art, while rejecting female students for male-dominate majors like science and engineering. Female workers have to abide the âunwritten rules,â meaning sleeping with their bosses, to climb up the career ladder. Women are only assigned assisting roles at work. While strong and independent women are stigmatized and dubbed âleft-overâ or âfemale men.â
You would think Mao who said that famous quote supported women rights. But he turned out to be one of the biggest women abusers by notoriously consuming hundreds of young women while being married to Jiang Qing.Â
Now itâs time to talk about hope, because no one likes depressing facts. Well, the group of young feminists gave me hope. I never thought China would have feminists. Their existence and the determination to fight is a living proof that China is changing, and only through them, China is really changing.Â