Yesterday, I had a conversation with a dear friend about something thatās been weighing on both of us: the feeling that weāre missing Godās message or calling.
It all started when I sent her a memeāclassic me, trying to lighten the mood. It said: āWhen Iām trying to be obedient to God but have no idea what Heās calling me to do.ā The clip was from a movie where Jackie Chan is nodding in confusion while Chris Tucker yells, āDo you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth?ā We laughed because, honestly, doesnāt that feel relatable?
I joked that the Holy Spirit must look at God sometimes and ask, āAre You sure You picked the right person?ā But the conversation quickly deepened. We started talking about how hard it can be to feel certain about what God is sayingāor if Heās saying anything at all.
Hereās the thing: I think so many of us are waiting for a moment. A booming voice from the heavens. A burning bush, tables flipped in fury, a veil torn in two. Something big and unmistakable. But what if weāre looking in all the wrong places?
What if God canāt cut through the noise weāve surrounded ourselves with?
We live in an age of constant stimulation. Big screens, small screens, and everything in between. Ads pop up at every turn. Our downtime is spent scrolling endlessly, keeping up with Facebook friends, or checking notifications. Add in family, work, kids, community obligations, and a culture that glorifies being busy, and it feels like thereās no time to simply be. If your calendar isnāt packed from the moment you wake up to when you collapse into bed, are you even doing enough?
I wonder sometimes why God used shepherds so often in His story. Shepherds were the first to see Jesus in the manger. King David was a shepherd boy before becoming king. Maybe itās because shepherding is quiet work. Sheep arenāt loud. They graze, they sleep. Thereās time to think, to reflect, to listen.
One of my favorite lines from The Alchemist says it best: āIf God leads the sheep so well, He will also lead a man.ā And how true that is. God speaks in the stillness.
Iāve heard God most clearly in the silence. I remember one vivid moment years ago, driving over the St. Simons Island causeway with the convertible top down. The wind drowned out every other sound, and as the marshes stretched out before me under the sunset, it was like time slowed to a crawl. I was in the middle of a season of uncertainty, praying about a specific person in my life, and in that quiet moment, I heard it.
It wasnāt a booming voice. It wasnāt words spoken aloud. But it was unmistakableālike God Himself was sitting beside me. I had spent months praying about this, but it wasnāt until I let the distractions fade into the background that I could hear Him so clearly.
Maybe thatās the real issue: weāve become so tuned to the noise around us that weāve fallen out of tune with God.
But hereās what Iāve also started to noticeāGod doesnāt stop trying to reach us, even in the chaos. What if, while waiting for us to sit still and listen, Heās speaking through the clutter of our lives?
Maybe Heās using our worship music to lead us to prayer.
Maybe Heās placing the same Bible verse in our feed, over and over, until we finally pay attention.
Maybe Heās working through friends, strangers, even those silly Reels we scroll past, planting little seeds along the way.
At some point, the coincidences stop being coincidences.
The same verse popping up in different places? Thatās not an accident.
Conversations that sync up with a situation youāre walking through? Not random.
A song that brings you to tears and reminds you to pray? Thatās not chance.
God is always working to start a conversation with us. To slow us down. To connect. He wants to reveal our calling, show us what weāre missing, and remind us that itās not just about the destinationāitās about the relationship.
So maybe the next time life feels noisy and overwhelming, instead of waiting for the burning bush or the booming voice, we can start looking for Him in the little things. The patterns. The whispers.
Because God isnāt just found in the big, dramatic moments. Heās in the stillness. The quiet. And even the noiseāif weāre willing to tune in and listen.
What about you? Have you noticed God showing up in unexpected ways? Are you carving out space to hear Him, or do you feel like Heās speaking through the noise? Iād love to hear your thoughts and stories.