No his name will not be an innocent nod to your name. No you can not pick his name. No you can not have my address. If you really wanted to buy them something just pay for it and I'll pick it up. It's called in store pickup for a reason! No I cant talk. Yes they have shoes no thanks to you. No Kamiyah doesn't have bumps that you decided were best to put rubbing alcohol on🙄 No they don't ask about you. The baby I'm carrying is fine as if you really cared anyway. I'm not going to unblock your number. I won't spend time with you when you decide to come to my city and stalk me. We are not a family. We simply made 3 kids that you choose to only use as validation on social media. But I'm the illegitimate parent that has no idea how to look in the mirror and right their wrongs when it comes to their children. They aren't a priority to you and they obviously never will be. But they will be okay! Case & point: How's their older brother doing in school, at sports, in life? A heck of a lot better without disappointment in his life I can tell you that. His unknown step mother has had more contact and conversation with the boy in the 5 years I've known him compared to you and his 10 years in existence. So I'll never expect my kids to be treated differently. The effort relies on you. Priority is your choice. They've just never been apart of it and sadly it took me 3 beautifully talented, educated, hilarious, mysterious kids and 5 years later to realize that.
And that's okay because I'm still standing!














